really broody but oh don't want no more

[mumof2children]

sorry if this is the wrong fourm to ask.

we has 2 children together aged almost 4 and 8 months.
for some reason i really want to experience pregnancy and child birth 1 more time.

i am 24, and my oh is 30...and he said he don't want to be an older dad especially since he has hit 30 he is 110% sure he doesn't want no more he has even said he want to have the snip.

what can i do to stop this broodiness or change oh mind

Oh bless him. He won't be an older dad. My other half was 56 when ds was born (bit of a surprise I admit) and he's taken it completely in his stride.

But two in four years is quite a lot to deal with financially and impacts on your life together. Maybe he wants more time with you as his fun-loving girlfriend rather than as the mother of his kids. With an eight month old he's probably pretty tired too.

I'd leave it for a while. You're only 24 so no medical hurry and your hormones are probably all over the place at the mo. I bet he comes round in a year or two.

You probably won't stop the broodiness. Believe me I have tried to stop mine but it just ended up with me getting really upset every few months.
It took about 8 years for my DH to change his mind, and I think he has only agreed to a second child now because he feels sorry for me lol.
He may change his mind once the baby stage has ended with you DC2.....Fingers crossed for you!!