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[milosmum]

hello!

this thread is gonna be the luckiest yet! trust me!

Stats:

Me:27
DH:32
DS:4
TTC:2yrs
MC Dec 04 & May 05

Im currently waiting on AF after last mc had a few pains today so maybe shes on her way- its the only time you will here me wishing for AF! i just want her to come so i can get back on the wheel!

I want to wish anyone without a BFP lots and lots of babydust!!!

Cheers Planning on lots of sushi too!

ah yes, not supposed to eat that these days am I?! here's hoping its your last lot of Sushi for a while too!!

That's exactly my thoughts too

anyone no anything about how to read semen analysis report please?

Not me, sorry.

Did you get the anaylsis back? Does it give you ay clues?

not much except my dh's was normal and he had 32 mil swimmers and I think about 80% (or soemthing motility)

ring the Dr's if ur not sure.

Debbsy - don't know how they write the reports, so not sure if this will help or not, but it does seem to give an idea of what's 'normal'.

semen

thanks tabs munz and hula spoke to hospital his test was normal 3.6ml volume morphology 16 motility at 85% excellent progression on migration so all seems well xx

panicking again now as just read on internet site that morphology at 16% is low! Now the sperm was 4 hrs old they didnt test it until 12.15pm so would it have dropped significantly in that time? and how do you work out the sperm count cos there isnt a column that says sperm count maybe im think if anyone knows though please help me

honney if the hospital are saying it's noraml then it's normal, don't take everything on the internet ot heart, go by what the dr says.

im with munz- they d tell you if it wasnt. Chin up Debs- it will happen!

i know i know im just being stupid i just want it to happen so so much im still having those twinges again and got springing in my boobs dare i say it the same feelings i had in may .

mm y arent u bd you hmm hmm ??? munz how are you doing hun did you cat me back?

debs i dont think you are being stupid hon i think this whole ttc thing can really mess you sometimes....... it gets to everyone differently. i think you are thinking there MUST be a reason why its not happening and, understandably, you are checking everything is ok.... its is understandable but i make you a promise now, the day you hold you 2 minute old baby in your arms, skin on skin, you will forget EVERYTHING you have had to endure.....and it will all have been worth it- trust me Debs

debs - in all honesty I was going to do it at lunchtime but things got away from me after a horrible day (again at work) doing the month end for june and the vat's etc I didn't have time, i'll try on here althou this comp for some reason won't let me send emails from hotmail, actually will try from explore instead of fire fox.

Juast my evening drop in to say hi! nothing happening here - told my mum today about m/c and she went mad shes thinks its time somebody did some investigating to see why it keeps happening.

Anyway im fine v.emotional i have been either thowing things at dp or crying at him today so maye its pmt and af will come soon though im not sure you get pmt with m/c bleeding? i actually think its just me bottling up all my feeling about m/c and its finally bursting out after me trying to convince myself i wasnt upset.

Hugs to all xx

if it happens mm getting anxious as coming up to 16 mths my mum thinks its affecting me like this as everything ive ever done and wanted ive been in control of but im not in control of this and i hate it.

im with you debs - i like to plan everything and have total control- bit of a freak myself!- and i know its sooooo hard when you fell like all you are doing in waiting!- we re here for you.....

and you charlee- dont bottle it up!it will come back to haunt you if you do and you dont want your little seeing that . i just keep remebering i have one and if its meant to be just the one- at least i have him.....

thanks mm xx

hey- thats what im here for right!

the only reason im feeling so positive is cose i ov'd yesterday so getting loads of lovely attention from DH.... ill be the same next week-

good luck for this mth everything crossed for you x

cp know just how you feel was like that with my dh in floods of tears one minute in a violent temper a minute later ((( hugs))) you just fel so empty like youve lost something but dont know what.x

cp - just mailed u, please don't bottle things up babe, it's not good in the long run, even if it's just writing a letter then burning it.

debs - I like to always know where I am as well with things but honestly this last cycle was the first cycle in 13 months where i've not thought this is it then after each BD - u know how I mean, or been so anxious whilst BD thinkin that this time could be th one u know? I knwo it's v easy for me to say, but try to forget about it till next weekend - go out have some drinks go to the pictures then next weekend hopefully you'll see the BFP staring back at you from your tests.

debs - getting to mail u now babe.

munz- like the letter thing- never thought of that.

i have a big hug waiting for both charlee & debs- could also squeeze in some gingerbread men i made with milo, if you want one!

debs- i ve cat you, just so you know im here if needed....