So, I need some perspective... . name changer to prevent Dh from identifying me.
So, we have been TTC number 2 for 7 months. Number 1 just happened the first month we tried. I know that 7 months is not long but I am a bit of a planner and a terrible worrier and I have to admit that I am concerned. DH knows this and he has been fab.
We are both excited about TTC another DC - DH been very, very keen but we both agreed that we would try to be relaxed about TTC. No temping, no OPKs etc just dtd regularly and prticularly around the time I ov. This can be tricky - we both work full time on different shift patterns (we work for an emergency service) which means that in order to manage our childcare it is common for him to be going out as I come in and vice versa.
Anyway, this month my ov has fallen at a time when we really are not seeing each other much - we only had a two hour window tonight. Instead of coming home tonight DH went for a few drinks after work and rolled up two minutes before I left for work.
I was upset, he knew today was THE day for this month. He says I am worrying too much and that we should be more relaxed about the whole thing. I have now stomped into work cursing him and, althoug I know he is right, I just can't feel relaxed. I feel angry and upset.
Its not like I don't ever let him out - we both manage social lives too - I don't think it was unreasonable to expect him to come home for sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Give me some perspecive and a metaphorical kick up the arse. I know that this is nothing in the grand scheme of things but I am still moping.
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Rant alert. Give me perspective. . . . TTC stress.
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Momdeguerre · 01/06/2009 21:15
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