Okay I know if I posted this on AIBU I would get lots of YABU's so thought would post here where you can stroke my hair and say YABU but you know that and that's what TTC does to you.
Okie coke had an MMC 26 days ago at 10 weeks pregnant (embryo died at 7weeks) (We were TTC for 6months and were very suprised it happened then). MW said was fine to try again this month and we decided to as figured best way to feel normal again was to get pregnant again as quickly as possible. So have been actively trying (and just enjoying each other) since about day 9 of my "new cycle". Cut to day 26 (today) am ovulating. All signs are there- peak on OPK's, temp low this morn but at usual post ov temp this eve, high soft open cervix and some EWCM (I don't get much so have to rely on other indicators). Now I am one of those annoying women who tell their DH when they are ovulating. Yes I know the arguments for not and not making it about babymaking. In my defence have been doing it for years before we were even TTC as part of my degree was reproductive physiology and am just fascinated by it all.
Anyhow I apprached DH seductively (well okay it was more "fancy a shag" but hey ho)this eve and was rebuffed. But okay figured we would get some in before we went to sleep. He has only bloody well gone to sleep at 9pm!!! He knew what day it was and he bloody well knew the dealio! Bah! So now no chance of trying tonight which is kind of a crucial time and I am all cross and upset- not only with DH but also for turning back into the TTC insanity witch again (but worse!). My rational brain knows it is not the end of the world if we don't have sex tonight (and to be honest am so moody I don't want to anyway) but all the miscarrage grief and stuff has come up and I am so upset that I can't sleep (especially not in same room as slumbering DH) so I needed to offlaod on here.
In his defence he is tired has been working fulltime since it happens whereas i have been off sick and then on phased return, and also I suspect there may be an element to him not wanting to try incase it happens again- but I need to be told those things and actually have a discussion about it for us to work through it together which I can't if he is asleep.
Bah bah bah.
Okay rant over. (and a p.s would it be unreasonable to take a large needle to his testicles and get the stuff I need.......?
That last bit is a joke by the way!
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Thandeka · 14/05/2009 22:39
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