Can anyone cheer me up? im not sure if its even possible to at the moment :'(

[QueenofVenus]

I know i could be the most impatient person ever, but i have 3 kids already which i managed to conceive on first or at most 2nd attempts, but now im with new partner and im on cycle 7 and still nothing nothing nothing is it psychological because its a new partner? im due af this thurs (14th) and i weakend this am and did a predictor test BFN i know its supposed to be done on day af is due, but if im honest i kinda 'know' im not pregnant - dont know how/why anyone know what i mean? I cant describe how sad i feel.

Hi

sorry you're feeling so low.

I can't really offer much advice other than to say this TTC lark is just a lottery. I have a friend who got pg with her first two on the first month of trying and then her 3rd took 18 months.

Personally I am desperately trying to conceive my 1st and am on cycle 19. It's not looking hopeful!

It's just a lottery.

If nothing happens with a year of trying might be worth you both getting tested

cycle 19!! oh i am impatient arent i! sorry! its just sooo very very tough on the emotions isnt it for what its worth i will keep my fingers tightly crossed for you too!x

It's OK, we're all impatient when it comes to this.

I think we just have to be grateful for what we've got rather than dwelling on what we haven't. Easier said than done I know but, at the end of the day, what's menat to be will be.

Good luck x

Elved - just to make you feel a bit better, our long awaited No1 is just 4 now - took 6 yrs to get there, but he's wonderful

Thankyou Mistlethrush

I've been told that chances of it happening are practiclaly zero (endo, high FSH, ridiculously low AMH, 40 this year etc etc) and that only hope is donor egg IVF but you can't help but have that little bit of hope each month can you.

You do hear of miracles occassionally don't you. Your little one was well deserved after 6 years. Blimey, you must have given up hope by then?

Actually I'd got to the top of the NHS list for IVF for the second time - 1st time had mp so enforce 1yr off ttc after 4 months of treatment - neither of which did much to help the wait... 2nd time it got to the Friday before the Tuesday appointment at which I would be told everything that was necessary and what day I'd be starting that month - and did a test and it was positive....

He was worth waiting for though