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What is wrong with me???? Advice PLEASE

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 12:33

Hi all, I am currently on another thread on hre, as we WERE trying for #3, here is the story....Me and my dp of 6 and a half years have bn trying last mnth and ths mnth we have did the deed 4 times, then few days after ths I decided I couldn't do it as things are hard at the moment, I have a dd, 7 from prev relationship, and ds, aged 2 who has special needs, which includes severe epilepsy and atm his seizures hve bn awful, so bn going thru an awful lotta upset, so we decided to put off trying, but obv as we have did the deed 4 times ts mnth before we decided nt to try anymore there is a chance I could be pregnant, currently on CD21, did a cheap e bay test ths morning, convincng mysel a very faint line, and am actually willing there to be!!! I thought I wasn't ready or at a stage to try, but nw I feel I DO want to....I am currently on Citalopram, 20mg(antidepressant) and trying to come off them and 10mg diazepam, ths one obv is te worrying med I wuld nd to get off,what the hell is wrong with me????

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 12:35

I shud add tht the diazepam is 10mg a day, 5mg twice daily if needed

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 12:38

And cd21 is too early to test right?

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 12:42

BUMP I am soo impatient

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sgibbo · 05/05/2009 13:24

hi Proudestmummyever - at what point during your cycle did you bd 4 times? do you know what point in your cycle you OV?

proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 13:43

Hi sgibbo!!

Well ths is 2nd mnth "trying" after being on pill, we did it cd5, 11,12 and 13 poss 14 but cant rememeber!!

Oops! What du think? Emm my cycle lenghth last mnth ws 30 days x

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sgibbo · 05/05/2009 14:21

Hi Proudestmummyever i would say there is a chance that you could get BFP but CD21 is too early to test with a CL 30days. what symptoms did you get for DD and DS? are you getting the same now?

proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 14:33

Hiya yeah I would say thre is a chance 2 , but I am worried as I am still on the AD's and Diazepam, emm no symptoms really with Jack, but feeling sick with Caitlin, boobs sore, tht kind of thing...

Have got tender boobs tho, when is earliest I can test du think??

And could I fall preg nw? Or is it too late?

I have also had 3 mc's too, 1 straightforward mc and 2 mmc, first two when my dd was 2, 2 and a half, the other was last Jan xx

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 14:33

Hiya yeah I would say thre is a chance 2 , but I am worried as I am still on the AD's and Diazepam, emm no symptoms really with Jack, but feeling sick with Caitlin, boobs sore, tht kind of thing...

Have got tender boobs tho, when is earliest I can test du think??

And could I fall preg nw? Or is it too late?

I have also had 3 mc's too, 1 straightforward mc and 2 mmc, first two when my dd was 2, 2 and a half, the other was last Jan xx

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 14:35

Oops sorry, posted tht twice

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 16:52

BUMP

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proudestmummyever · 05/05/2009 20:39

BUMP

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proudestmummyever · 06/05/2009 09:41

BUMPING

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Castiel · 06/05/2009 09:47

Hi there. It depends very much when you ovulate. I had a positive test at 8dpo having ovulated on day 12 so was on day 20/21 when tested. Very faint and an ebay cheapie. I'd bought a batch of 10 so did one a day and the line got stronger. She's 2 on Sunday!

The faint line you thought you saw, did it appear during the time detailed on the instructions?

I do hope you get the answer you want. If you know when you ovulated I'd test 12 days later minimum. Well, I wouldn't because I have no will power but that's probably what you should do.

proudestmummyever · 06/05/2009 10:11

HAha Castiel yeh!! I know, I am a serial tester too and have a BAG full of e bay cheapies in cupboard whih doesnt help!!

I tried ths morning too, looks like very very very faint line but am prob imagining it, I don't particularly like the ebay 1's as as if you mistakenly pee on the window it makes it cloud up inside!!!! Aaaargh

Yeh it appeared within time limit...but in bk of my mind still thinking I am imagining it and totally squinting to see a line, 9 days til Af due today, so CD21 xx

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Castiel · 06/05/2009 10:28

My ebay cheapies were dip test ones like [http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/10-x-PREGNANCY-TESTS-PRO-ULTRA-EARLY-10mIU-TEST-PRIVATE_W0QQitemZ370148096331 QQcmdZViewItemQQptZUKHealthHealthCareRL?hash=item370148096331&trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=72%3 A1688%7C66%3A2%7C65%3A12%7C39%3A1%7C240%3A1318%7C301%3A1%7C293%3A1%7C294%3A50 this]] so no chance of misdirected flow iyswim!

I'll keep an eye on this thread. You sound like a lovely Mum.

Castiel · 06/05/2009 10:28

this

Sorry, link...

proudestmummyever · 06/05/2009 10:32

Aww thanku soo mch Castiel that means a lot
xxxxx

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