Confused and lonely

[Emlou01]

It seems there are a load of chats about 'could I be pregnant' 'late but negative test' and I am one of those. 3 days late, two test that were negative. I had become regular again after coming of the pill but this month I am late, got the normal cramps but nothing. I got so hopeful but I feel really lonely, everyone just says that I will come on and should stop worrying and that I will get pregnant but I feel really lonely and don't know what to do.... This is harder than I thought and I felt I needed to share. Any advice would be great.

No advice but hang on in there, I don't think there's much more you can do at this stage.
Have you been trying long ?

this happened to me a week or so ago, i feel for you as i remember how excruciating it was constantly wondering. i had two bfn's then decided to wait until my period was a week late before trying again. period finally arrived 10 days late, was v upset but pretty much expected it after BFns.
the advice i got was that it might go either way. horrible as it is, all you can do is wait.
i found only way to cope was to keep really busy and try to keep my mind off it. it is tough though

Thanks for the messages.

I came on this morning but it's really light so feel like it has been done in a day! So different from before but I guess that's what the pill does for you.

Been concentrating on stuff for my wedding to keep my mind off this.

Been trying 6 months and I know that's not long but it seems to be getting harder as each month goes on.

How long have you been trying?

I've been ttc 3 months but off pill 6 months, but wasn't very well first few months so not really up to ttc. I did really get my hopes up when AF was late, and was gutted when it arrived. I thought AF had regularised after coming off pill but now i'm not so sure. but also I know from before taking pill that stress occasionally delayed my period, so going to try really hard this month to relax and take my mind off things.
I really do know what you mean about the lonely thing, I think its just something so personal and so important and its so hard that you can't have any control over it happening.
how long till your wedding now?