Anyone else having a bad day today? I feel rubbish.

[BanoffeeTruffle]

I am a regular but have name changed because people in RL know me on here and I can't face a barrage of calls from them, or worse, no calls...

Such a shitty day today. Woke up clenching teeth and feeling generally bad. Did a few hours work this morning (work from home) and had bath and lunch and now just at desk in floods of tears - don't know why. Not ttc stress I don't think though obviously that is always there in the background.

DH is being lovely - he says whatever I want to do this evening we should do which is sweet and now I can;t think of anything at all that I want to do that will make me feel better or less lonely.

Just feel all tearful for no reason and totally rubbish - is cd10 so not even pmt.

Oh BanoffeeTruffle sometimes you just need a good weepy day to get all the negative emotions out. There's no harm is having a good cry every now and again - even if you think there's no reason to. Firmly beleive that it's a good way to 'cleanse' the body. Sometimes we store up little woes and niggles and they need to be released somehow.

I say, get a box of tissues, have a good sob then when you're feeling a little calmer have a good think about whether there really is an issue for you to be feeling this down or whether it's just a case of having a blue day?

If you feel that there is something wrong then maybe a glass of wine and a chat with someone you trust? Mum, BF, DH? Sometimes another person's perspective on a situation can make it seem totally different.

Indulge yourself a little bit and try and let your mind wander; it may lead you to the answer that you are least expecting.

Very much hope that you feel better soon. ((((HUGS))))) to you. xxxxxx

You poor thing, sounds like you're having a horrible day . But I'm glad you came on here to let it out, and that your DH is so lovely and supportive.

I'm not having a bad day today but have had enough of them during our loooong months of attempting to conceive our first baby to know how cruel ttc can be. Annoying when you can't even blame it on PMT!

to you
xx

Thanks all. I had a cry, then went for a walk and bought a cream egg and now am at home with tea and cream egg and we've arranged to see a film tonight. Feel so much better - actually I feel rubbish still, but not hopeless as I did before, now just a grumpy bad mood. Thank you for letting me rant and being there.

I don't know if this helps, but after a mmc I've been like this in the run up to both ovulation and AF - poor DH can't work out when to speak to me and when to leave me alone!

Have an indulgent evening and a nice BD and you'll feel a lot better!