I have one IUI and 2 IVF cycles behind me. My numbers are up, or so the doctors tell me. My FSH level is at 15.3, I'm 39 and dh is 40 (nothing wrong with his sperm) The result of both IVF cycles were abnormalities in the eggs, one of Downs Syndrome diagnosed at 13 weeks (we had a termination, heartbreaking) and the 2 eggs collected last time were fertilized abnormally because they reckon the quality of the eggs was so poor, that the wall linings were thin enough for 2 sperms to get into both eggs, creating eggs with 3 sets of all chromosomes (serious abnormality)
I am now surfing the net like crazy trying to find answers to this problem. They say my eggs are fast running out and the ones I have left are not of great quality and are suggesting egg donation. Although this is an acceptable idea, I'd rather defy medicine and use my own eggs, or should I heed the signs. I would really like to hear from anyone with a similar experience.