Bit of a long story but i'll try and keep it brief...
me 31 dh 33 ds 5. We wer diagnosed in 2007 with sub-fertility after failing to conceieve a 2nd child (after 4 years).
Had loads of medical tests etc done on both sides and both ok, were told our best chance was IVF. At the time we were heartbroken, confused as to WHY when we managed to conceieve ds so easily etc. I was not coping with the ups and downs of the unexplained thing and all the monthly disappointments wheile numerous friends were on their 2nd or 3rd pregnancy in the time we been trying.
Anyway, we decided the best way to get rid of the pain and anxiety was to remove the hope...ie my dh agreed to a vasectomy and got it done in april 08.
I immediately regretted our desision as my longing is still there, stupid of us i know but i was in a living hell at the time.
Anyway, after lengthy discussion, we have decided that it was a mistake to get snipped and now hope to 'undo' the damage so to speak. On doing research, i know the chances aren't brilliant hence the reason for posting...i guess im reaching out for stories of hope.
We have to pay privately for the reversal and its booked for next week!