Hi !
Just joined and have had an emotional rollercoaster of a ride since we started trying for a baby 5 months ago.
My main problem is that I am 40 next month ( my mum started the menopause in her 50s) and it's taken me 40 years to find Mr. Right ! We got married in July and started trying immediately.
I have been on and off the pill for 21 years or so and came off in June. My periods are all over the place, ranging from 24 days to 35 days so it makes it really difficult to monitor. I had one period which last for 3 weeks and my doctor said on the Friday that I had miscarried (what a fun weekend that was!) and booked me in for a scan and d&c at our local hospital. It was a rollercoaster of a weekend. On the positive, at least I could have children but on the negative side, I had miscarried. I went to the clinic to be examined and was told very abruptly and rudely off a young female doctor that I hadn't been pregnant in the first case! I felt such a fraud.I went back to my doctor with the information that the hospital had given me and was told that he had made a mistake. Great.
I then saw a femal locum doctor and told her that my ovulation kit said that I was ovulating around day 15/16. She replied that at my age my eggs could be very poor quality despite ovulating. I went home and cried.
Since then, my family doctor has said to throw away my charts and diary and 'go at it like rabbits' as I am young at 40 to have a baby (?!!!) I still went ahead and had day 2-4 test (normal result ) but I had a blonde moment and went for the day 21 test on day 29! I sat in the surgery and was told ,because the results were invalid due to the wrong day, it had to be done again. I had then to wait for my period to start! My husband's test came back above average, so at least that was a glimmer of hope.
We finally got the day 21 test results off a locum doctor 3 weeks ago and were told that they were normal. I visited the dr today as I have flu and double checked and found out that the previous doctor had misread the results and than my progesterone level from the test was only 12 which was very very low. My dr apologised and says he will refer me to the fertility clinic immediately, however because we have only been trying for nearly 6 months, despite my age, they might not see me.
My husband and I have conflicting information over the past 6 month. I have been told 2 different start days for periods- one dr said it is the very first sign of blood ie.spotting, however another GP said that it was when the blood is really flowing, so I don't know for sure if it was my day 21 or not.
Can you still get pregnant with a day 21 test level of 12?
Feeling incredibly emotional and that time is not on our side at all.
Sorry for the long letter...just need to hear some positive news off people out there!