Calling WorriedBev

[BellaLasagne]

WB,

The TTC19 thread is moving so fast I didn't want to lose touch with you.

Can we use this thread to talk?

Have you had your dh's results yet?

BL

BL
Lovely to hear from you and so pleased that you are focusing your mind on other things. It took a lot of willpower for me to do that and in the end I accepted that we would probably have to have help with my DH's 25% motility and DH also thought this as well, but as goes to show, this can happen, whatever the motility, there is our specialist telling us it is not very good motility and we would probably need medical intervention - thats one in the eye for him now. I had great pleasure ringing up the clinic and telling them I didnt need any more appointments as I had conceived naturally, although I didnt speak to the specialist direct the nurse wasreally pleased for us. What is your DH's motility level? Nothing is hopeless, you can see that now.

Yes I know, I was not spending as much time as I should have been with my dd and realised I loved her so much and she is growing up so quick - 12 next month that I devoted more time to her and really enjoyed having her around on holiday, enjoyed every minute with her.

So my belief is the minute you concentrate on something else it will happen. Not to focus on that one thing, dont forget about trying to conceive obviously but dont make it the be all and end all.

Keeping everything crossed for you Bella and please keep in touch.
love Bev

Meant to add Bella, I am 41 and DH is 60, so dont worry about age, it may take a little longer but that is only expected. It happened for me and it will happen for you.

Are the other children you have got with your DH or from a previous relationship. If they are DH's then obviously he produced kids then so nothing should be that different now.
Bev

Thank-you so much WB (and by the way, I hope you're not worried any more!) for your kind words.

We live in hope! DH is indeed my two's father - it was No.2 who gave him mumps that caused the damage! We conceived them within 4 months, but we were in our 30's and the damage hadn't been done, so it is entirely possible that it can happen again. In fact, our GP said that if we didn't want more we should use contraception, so fingers are very much crossed!

Very best of luck to you - I'll keep an eye out on this thread so we can talk again soon,

BL x

BL
No I am not worried anymore, I will have to think of a new name now wont I.

Like you, we didnt feel it was impossible to conceive and if you have been told to use contraception if you dont want another child, then all is not lost. I am sure, like me, it will happen for you in time, it may take a bit longer than some but I never gave up thinking it wouldnt happen. I always thought one day it would. DH didnt feel so positive but I thought if it was going to it would.

I am sure you will be just fine. Just expect it to take a little longer maybe, but I am sure I will be seeing your BFP in the not too distant future.
All the best.
Bev