Hi Jojo,
I sincerely wish PCOS was something straightforward to sort out - it often is not and it is not a problem that can be cured. The underlying causes of PCOS are not fully understood. It can only therefore be managed. It can be a hard journey both emotionally and physically.
If you are not having periods then you are not ovulating. Even having a period with PCOS is somewhat problematic as in such cases you are likley not to be ovulating. It does not always follow that having periods means you are ovulating.
Clomid is often the first line of treatment for PCOS patients BUT you need to bear in mind that this may not work out. Some PCOS patients can and do become clomid resistant over time. Clomid increases LH production; if your LH levels are sky high to start with then it may not work for you. This is certainly not the end of the line though; there are other treatments that can and should be tried. Clomid should be given for a maximum time of six months; if it hasn't worked after six months then it is unlikely to. You should be monitored with both blood tests and ultrasounds whislt on clomid and certainly not left.
I take it as read that the March appointment is the first one for you both. This is usually a question and answer session, they will doubtless arrange for you both to have further tests done.
Would strongly suggest you write down anything you want to ask no matter how trivial it may appear and to go with your man to this appointment (moral support is vital at such times and he can also ask questions).
Another suggestion I would make to you is to have a look at Verity's website. Verity is a UK based charity speficially for women diagnosed with PCOS. Their web address is www.verity-pcos.org.uk.
Arm yourself with knowledge, the more you know the better off you will be when it comes to making decisions.
It is certainly not an absolute barrier to conception, I am a parent (following ovarian diathermy surgery).
I wish you well, keep us posted
HTH
Meerkats (PCOS diagnosed 1997)