Loosing hope really need a hand hold

[daisymae04]

I just feel like I need to get this off my chest, I had a 9 week MMC early 2024 and it’s nearly been 2 years of TTC since with 1 chemical. I’ve had ultrasounds, dye tests, blood tests and nothing has come up. My husband also has clear tests. I decided on loosing some weight and have been focusing on that…
I am really struggling with friends pregnancy announcements and I am so so so embarrassed to be the one “who can’t conceive” I feel every tip toes around me :(.
I just really want some hope, I feel like it’s never going to be and some days it just hits me like a ton of bricks

Hi,
Didn’t want to read and not respond. Afraid I have no real solutions but just want to share that you’re not alone in all of those feelings ❤️ I had an ectopic mid 2024 with the tube removed, and nothing since, with practically everyone I know getting quickly pregnant in the meantime …

Take care of yourself, sending some hope your way xxxx

Me too 🙁, currently have 15 pregnant friends and all my closest friend are pregnant. I feel the same but equally find constant conversations around pregnancy and motherhood so depressing. It’s rubbish, hope you are ok

@Percy15 I am so sorry to hear that, this is truly one of the worst clubs to ever be in. I feel like I get more positive and then bam another friends pregnancy announcement and I just go into a shell and cry and cry. I am sending you so much positivity

@Bubbles14 yes it’s a loose loose I feel! I don’t want to hear about how wonderful it is being pregnant etc but then at the same time not being part of these conversations I just feel so left out and I am SICK of people feeling sorry for me :( how long have you been ttc?

I’m sorry to hear you’re having such a rough time of it. In a bid to offer some hope, I’ll share my experience: 2 years ttc - about to start treatment - got pregnant and miscarried at 11/12 weeks. Then, a further 2 years ttc - about to start treatment - got pregnant. She’s 15 now ☺️. And, was followed by her sister just over 2 years later… there were definitely times I thought it would never happen, but it did eventually.

It’s a miserable journey and I know it doesn’t happen for everyone and for even less without intervention, but sometimes it does and just takes a while. Wishing you all the best on the journey

Thanks @Pineapplesunshineits nice to hear positive stories 😊

@daisymae04it’s definitely an isolating experience, been ttc for two years but hoping to start ivf next year. Latest pet peeve is friends who fall pregnant on the first go keep telling me I should be happy to be doing ivf. Just feel so left out and like I’m constantly missing out, hard all around to navigate but im trying to also stay hopeful that we will all eventually get there!

@Pineapplesunshine thank you so much for your positivity. I love reading stories like this ❤️

@Bubbles14 I think that’s the thing…. Trying to not let it control our lives and having faith everyone has their own journeys and paths. I need to loose weight for IVF first, after spending thousands on investigations this year I just don’t have the money to go private right now 😮‍💨