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Anyone else get obsessed whilst TTC? Any tips welcome.

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Ttcno2thisber · 06/10/2025 18:06

Just wondering if anyone is in the same boat really. Whether it’s your first, second, third pregnancy etc.

I got pregnant first month ttc in January 2022. Ended up finding out I was having twins at 6 weeks, had weekly scans as had spotting and on Mother’s Day 2022 I found out both babies had no heartbeats. I then had infections, haemorrhages which required 999 calls and hospital stays.
I found myself literally obsessed with getting pregnant after that, had my son in spring 2023. 9 months of hellish anxiety and then baby ended up in nicu with suspected sepsis for a week.

It has taken a while to gain the courage to ttc again but it’s our first cycle and I’m already stressing. symptom spotting, worrying about miscarriage, worrying if I’ve ovulated (I have PCOS)

I hate being like this, I feel really alone, like most people I know just go with the flow and say relax.

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Utardelis · 06/10/2025 18:40

Firstly so sorry for your losses 😘 its completely understandable to be anxious so dont be too hard on yourself, miscarriage association and tommys can have some helpful advice.

Everyone is different - there isn’t a magic button to switch off and “relax and it will happen” as people like to tell you 🙃

I saw a video online a woman said “there’s people who say their babies were made from love, mine was made from planning and science” and I think about that to flip it on its head when I’m worrying about overthinking and planning.

Best of luck 🤍

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