Hey everyone , very new to this. This is our first month TTC we already have one child who is 5 years old. I’m 28 for reference. So we decided that we finally want to try for a 2nd. Tbh I have wanted another for a while so I’m super ready. I knew that going on this journey would be stressful as I’m a super anxious person. I tracked my cycle with clear blue advanced tests. Had 4 flashing smileys before a static. We had sex the day before the static smiley appeared (Monday 8th) and we had sex sat 6th & 4th aswell. Monday eve I had a lot of CM and ovulation pain. Tuesday/Weds my peak basically we weren’t able to have sex as my husband was unwell. I was devastated to say the least.
Anyway, I think I would have ovulated on Weds 10th as it’s the day after first static smiley? Which would make me 11DPO today. I swore to myself I wouldn’t test but I did yesterday (10dpo) with FRER and it was a BFN. 9 days DPO I had period pain and really bad gas and gurgling and I still have the gurgling feeling today in my uterus and twinges. But I’m feeling like we didn’t do enough around ovulation for it to happen this month :( any stories similar that ended in a positive way? I also have a bad headache today and yesterday. I feel very defeated , anyone have/had a similar situation?