Hi all, just catching up.
Firstly @MC8 I am so so sorry to read your news. 9 losses is just so cruel and beyond unfair. Echoing @Fletchasketch with the offer to chat. I often wonder if a WhatsApp group or FB or something might be helpful for us here but not sure if people would be keen. I think its quite nice that we can come to this thread when you are emotionally up for it and not have it kind of buzzing like a group chat can be.
@TammyinCork sorry about your BFN. IVF could be a good shout for you, especially as you could try to 'bank embryos' ASAP - as my consultant says once created, they are frozen in time and aren't affected by aging like ours eggs are when TTC naturally. Worth considering if you'd want multiple children for the same reason - your embryos aged 42 would be fine to implant for a while I'd guess. Personally, I wish I'd started IVF earlier although my failure to conceive could be down to something else, who knows. Not only because I'm impatient but because everything with IVF seems to take longer than you expected/hoped/planned for. Your follicle count is definitely promising and AMH of 8.4 isn't low in IVF terms. Its a really personal decision and it can feel counterintuitive at times when you DON'T TTC in the time waiting for the next stage of IVF.
I don't think I'd do PGT-A again for what its worth, unless you've had chromosomal issues in the past. None of my tested losses have had chromosomal problems and I had a failed transfer with the most perfect embryo you can get! Although I am slightly younger which could be a consideration.
@SWMum9 how frustrating - I can't believe no one has picked it up before. Did they show you an image/measurements of how large the septum was? I always ask about this on scans and have always been told I don't have one but I always wonder! Will you have surgery to correct it and the tube? Or a hycosy?
@Jecca88 sorry you're struggling on the GCSF. Are they normal side effects? Glad you're sleeping better but the other ones don't sound fun and ah yes the brown CM - such a party pooper. Just remember so many pregnancies have it and have positive outcomes, its something that doesn't mean doom but for us recurrent loss girls its just an awful presence. Crossing absolutely everything for you on Friday, I'm so hopeful for you ❤
Hope you're ok @Fletchasketch it sounds sensible to wait for Dr Edge to be back and I'm wishing you all the positivity in the world for the scan once it comes.
Hope you're all okay @Deerdancer34 @Objectiontime @Gizmo1983 and anyone else reading 💕
Christ this turned into a bit of an essay!! No results back from my hysteroscopy yet, but I am going away next week as its half-term so going to enjoy myself when away and then get back on the IVF wagon hopefully for a November transfer. Been SO weird to actively not TTC this cycle - first time in years I think. I still ovulation tested for some reason 😂 (POASA)
Love to all xxx