Trying to calm my mind

[Everythingisokay]

Hi

Just a bit about our conception journey.

Part 1
We had a MMC and a chemical pregnancy before conceiving our LO. It cook us just under a year from the day we started TTC to the day we saw two lines for the pregnancy that led to LO.

Part 2
We started trying for a second child 8 months ago and had two chemicals.
I tested positive again now but I'm so stressed.
It seems everyone around us is either heavily pregnant with #2 or has just given birth to them, and they think it's okay to be asking what our plans are. I found myself trying to avoid certain people for this reason.
Some days I really just want to stay home and cry, quiet days at work are so hard, however, busy ones are good for the soul.

Just feeling like such a loser for not being able to deal with my feelings. I've cried lots since testing positive thinking it might not last.

Is anyone on the same boat? Any success stories from people with similar experiences? How did you calm your mind?

I appreciate a lot of people have gone/are going through a lot worse and my heart goes out to you all 💕

Congratulations on the positive test and I hope that it is a sticky little bean.
Im very sorry about your losses. They are always hard.

I think you need to just surround yourself with positive people, who are understanding and helpful of your situation. Keeping your mind busy is also key. Planning the next step is also helpful and just picking one thing at a time to do and focusing on that. Lots of reading, a new TV series, gardening, spending some time away from the house in day trips and so forth are also helpful.

@Miraclemuma03 thank you so much for replying ❤️
Been up since early hours, just having a negative feeling about everything, emotional and unable to sleep.
Desperate to re-rest right now but I have to be somewhere this morning and if news are bad, it will be too much on top.
Will re-rest when I'm home later

I hope everything works out for you. Re test when your ready.