I’m not sure which forum to put this in !!
We conceived our last baby (now 5months) last April/June, it was a rocky pregnancy and at the start we lost a twin. It all happened very early on and I was under EPU to see everything had cleared and make sure our living baby was doing great. Our twin was not really ever a baby I guess and likely never had a heartbeat but still I feel hurt over it? Which is an odd feeling as yes I lost one but I still have our absolute miracle who we went through so many complications along the way with but he’s here and absolutely fine and perfect !!
a family member made some comments a few days ago about how maybe he’s so clingy because of not having his twin, and then said how would I have coped with two babies.. which feels an odd thing to say and it upset me.
Is it wrong to be feeling like I do? wanting to ttc so soon? We’re not preventing anyway but we have 2 children and both were not easy or short paths to conception anyway. I’ve had talks with my husband and I think we’re going to take it a bit more seriously from November but I still can’t help but feel I want this baby so badly right now 😭
I wondered how others that had lost a twin felt? Did you want to ttc again after you had the surviving twin?