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CD44 no AF and BFNS

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InsertUsernameHereeee · 25/06/2025 18:24

Currently on CD44. Usually have a 29-34 day cycle. Tested again and BFN, my 4th one, so I don’t think I’m pregnant but don’t feel like AF is coming either.

DTD on CD12 and thought I was ovulating around CD14 as I had all my usual symptoms. (Annoyingly didn’t test this month) so I guess I can’t be 100% sure. Maybe I just haven’t ovulated this month?

Just to add - no changes in my diet, no stress etc.

Anyone else going through similar?

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woodpeckersounds · 25/06/2025 20:49

Yep! Exactly the same as you in that I’m CD44, but my cycles are normally 25-28 days. BFN today again and it’s driving me crazy now. My boobs are so sore, I’m bloated and getting lots of feelings down there which I remember getting when pregnant with my other two. I don’t get sore boobs with AF, and I only bloat the week before not the week of. I did have gastroenteritis about month ago which would’ve been around ovulation, so I’m assuming I skipped it because of being ill and am just waiting for the next cycle to end. But I’m getting so frustrated not knowing what’s going on! If nothing happens this week then I think I’ll call the doctors next week.

InsertUsernameHereeee · 25/06/2025 21:20

@woodpeckersounds hey! It’s so frustrating isn’t it. Hopefully it ends soon for us. I had nausea last week, bloating and crazy headaches but then that all disappeared so I don’t know what was up with that. Maybe it was just one of those months? I’m the same as you, I’ll wait another week or so and then maybe ring the doc aswell. Never been this late before! Not without being pregnant lol.

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woodpeckersounds · 25/06/2025 22:38

Extremely frustrating! I’ve not had headaches but again I don’t normally suffer with them in pregnancy anyway. I just think it’s pretty clear I’m not pregnant, but just can’t help myself from POAS.. just in case! 🤣 yeah maybe there’s just something in the water at the minute. Just really want AF to come now so I know where I stand with my cycles again. Again same as you, I’m only ever this late when I’m pregnant so it’s definitely a first for me! Although there is a part of me that’s worrying I’m pre-menopausal. I’m only 34 but things have been happening with my body lately that has made me wonder.. hopefully I’m too young, but fingers crossed the doctor can help figure out what’s going on!

InsertUsernameHereeee · 26/06/2025 00:00

@woodpeckersounds I was thinking the same thing! I’m 33 so that’s something I was worrying about being pre menopausal lol! So glad I’m not alone. I have 2 tests left to do next week if nothing happens but still absolutely no sign, no nothing!

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woodpeckersounds · 26/06/2025 06:10

@InsertUsernameHereeeei think with us being so young, it’ll be rare for us both to being pre-menopausal but honestly anything could happen nowadays! Yeah I have one test left so I may wait until Monday to test again if nothing. I wonder if we have missed a cycle, our AF symptoms could be stronger/different on this cycle? It’s very odd, but hopefully we’ll know where we stand soon!
I should be due on next Sunday if I count 28 days from when my last period should’ve started, so could have another 10 days of not knowing what the hell is going on 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m glad I’m not alone in this as well, as least we can keep each other updated with what’s going on etc.. I think my friend is fed up of hearing about it!

InsertUsernameHereeee · 26/06/2025 09:22

@woodpeckersounds oh absolutely, I think my DH is fed up of listening to me aswell 😂 just fingers crossed if AF does come, she doesn’t come with a vengeance 😩 still nothing today. Keep me updated!

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woodpeckersounds · 26/06/2025 12:32

@InsertUsernameHereeee🤣🤣 well why doesn’t he have the answer?? He should!! Haha. Yeah worried about her coming with full force too. As of late they’ve only lasted 3-4 days and are extremely light with very minimal symptoms. Still no AF for me either, and boobs are even more sore 😩 I will do, and you!!

InsertUsernameHereeee · 26/06/2025 13:20

@woodpeckersounds Haha! Tbf hes pretty good having the answers to things, but this one has him stumped! 😂😂😂

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InsertUsernameHereeee · 28/06/2025 13:34

@woodpeckersounds hey how’s you? Still nothing for me today, I’ve had some weird cramping to the left of my groin and a splitting headache. Had some ovulation tests lying around but nothing on that.

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woodpeckersounds · 28/06/2025 13:47

@InsertUsernameHereeeehey I’m good thanks and you? Yeah still nothing here either, just really sore nipples! Driving me up the bloody wall! I keep getting sharp pains in my left and right side, but no cramping. I might test again Monday but it’ll be negative so probably no point 🤣

InsertUsernameHereeee · 28/06/2025 14:05

@woodpeckersounds all good thanks. Ha same! I have a frer coming but there’s no point 😂😂

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InsertUsernameHereeee · 28/06/2025 16:36

Caved but BFN again. Think I’ll just wait it out now!

CD44 no AF and BFNS
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Samthenanny · 28/06/2025 20:11

Hi ladies can I join you.
im currently on day 67 of a cycle and my period is 41 days late and I feel so crappy.
we’re actively ttc no2 but it’s just not happening and this whole missing 3 periods is really getting to me now.
Ive peed on a lot of pregnancy tests and they’re all bfn, I apparently ovulated about 2 weeks ago but still no sign of af.

are either of you bloated?

and when af does arrive im expecting it to be pretty intense 🤦🏻‍♀️

Samthenanny · 28/06/2025 20:13

@InsertUsernameHereeee sorry for your bfn

InsertUsernameHereeee · 28/06/2025 20:22

@Samthenanny Hi! Of course. Wow that must be so frustrating for you 😞 have you thought about seeing your gp? It’s so hard not knowing what’s going on isn’t it. X

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InsertUsernameHereeee · 29/06/2025 10:42

AF has arrived for me CD48! Such a sigh of relief.

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woodpeckersounds · 29/06/2025 14:08

Samthenanny · 28/06/2025 20:11

Hi ladies can I join you.
im currently on day 67 of a cycle and my period is 41 days late and I feel so crappy.
we’re actively ttc no2 but it’s just not happening and this whole missing 3 periods is really getting to me now.
Ive peed on a lot of pregnancy tests and they’re all bfn, I apparently ovulated about 2 weeks ago but still no sign of af.

are either of you bloated?

and when af does arrive im expecting it to be pretty intense 🤦🏻‍♀️

Wow, I’m getting impatient being 18 days late and CD48! Have you gone to the doctors as that seems crazy to me? I really feel for you considering you’re TTC.

sorry, edited to add that yes I have been quite bloated. It comes and goes but was very bloated during the week.

woodpeckersounds · 29/06/2025 14:11

@InsertUsernameHereeeeahhh such a relief, hopefully I won’t be waiting too much longer now then, I just need to know what the hell is going on with my body!!

InsertUsernameHereeee · 29/06/2025 17:10

@woodpeckersounds well it came for a second then disappeared… urgh 😫

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woodpeckersounds · 29/06/2025 18:27

@InsertUsernameHereeeeWow that is so strange. Are you going to the docs this week?

InsertUsernameHereeee · 29/06/2025 18:36

@woodpeckersounds I will if it doesn’t come back, I’ll see what happens tomorrow hopefully she hurries up lol

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woodpeckersounds · 29/06/2025 20:43

@InsertUsernameHereeeeThere’s definitely something funny going on ain’t there!

woodpeckersounds · 30/06/2025 17:29

@InsertUsernameHereeeehows it going! BFN for me this morning and still no AF 😅

InsertUsernameHereeee · 30/06/2025 17:33

@woodpeckersounds yep she’s definitely arrived properly this evening. Oh gosh really? How frustrating! Maybe she’ll appear in the next few days x

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woodpeckersounds · 30/06/2025 18:36

@InsertUsernameHereeeeoh that’s good news then. What a relief! I’m convinced I just missed a cycle and she will arrive sometime this weekend/early next week. I’m just so worried I’m starting my menopause journey. I’m not ready for that yet. I overthink A LOT so hopefully that’s all it is and I’m not quite there yet!!