I’ve been lurking on this for a while but now we’re actually trying I think it’s time to say hi.
Congratulations to all who have tested positive this month, and I’m so very sorry to everyone who is having a bumpy ride of it.
We have a 2 year old, and for various reasons we couldn’t really have tried before this month.
This is all new to me as our first was a compete and utter accident, so ‘trying’ is a new concept!
My partner is very much on board with no.2, but I didn’t tell him when I suspected I was fertile etc, trying to keep everything as relaxed as possible for the first few goes!
I’ve only been tracking my period on Flo, and noticing ewcf, so ovulation is a bit of a guessing game. I tend to get ewcf a day or two after my period, and my cycles are only (and have only ever been) 24/25 days, so I suspect I ovulate quite early.
According to Flo we had sex 3 days before and the day after ovulation, so maybe we have a chance!
I’m also over 40, so should probably be taking it a bit more seriously, but I can’t help but hope it will be like last time when we weren’t even trying.
So now im in my first ever waiting game - best of luck to you all