6M+ TTC after loss

[MamaZo1301]

Hi all,
Sorry for the impending moan but I feel like I’m going stir crazy with the isolation.

We’ve been TTC baby no.4 since April 2024, with a 6 week miscarriage in Sept, and a chemical in Dec. It’s now been 6 months since our last loss, and allll I read is how quickly people managed to get pregnant again 😞

I’m 28, no medical issues, all bloods etc came back perfect. What is wrong with me!?

Similar to me, trying to conceive baby no.3 after a missed miscarriage in Feb, a chemical in April.

I really didn’t think it would happen again and it’s left me really worried that I can no longer carry.

I got some incredibly sad health news about my dad just before the second, do you think stress can play a role?

@SoMuch2Saysorry to hear that lovely, it’s a rough journey isn’t it.

I have felt exactly the same, why suddenly can we not keep the babies in? It’s draining!

oh absolutely, I had some stress I’d call pretty minor and my suddenly 29 day cycle ended up 37 days long. Sorry to hear about your dad 💗

This is also similar to me. Got pregnant pretty quickly initially, had a miscarriage in Feb and now months of nothing. Im TTC No1 and a bit older so it's bit different but hope this just makes it feel less lonely.

I'm hoping it's just down to bad luck but going to have some basic tests. Feels sometimes like you only hear stories from friends and family of things being really easy, but I reckon there's a lot of this and it's pretty normal. Fingers crossed for us all

I was 21 and it took 17 cycles to get pregnant the first time which ended in a missed miscarriage and then another 12 cycles to get pregnant again. Both times got pregnant on the month we didn’t really try and I was so sure it wasn’t our month. My cycles were very regular and nothing seemed wrong with either of us.

I’m so sorry for your losses 🤍 I feel you, I’ve been there and it’s just awful! We conceived our daughter on the second cycle but the first cycle was a bit of a “let’s see what happens cycle”. We tried for a second in Feb 2024 and conceived first cycle but had a MMC. Then followed a year of either chemicals or nothing at all and it was just frustrating as!! Had basic testing, pelvic ultrasound and all normal. Slightly short luteal phase was the only thing. Then just as we were about to explore further testing, I fell pregnant again on cycle 13… and I’m currently 15 weeks & hopeful 🤞🏻 And I’m 33 so still considered young in the fertility world!

@AmberMapsabsolutely what I’m here for lovely - doesn’t matter your story differences. In it together 🤍

This exactly how I feel. Everyone I know has either been pregnant straight away, or the ones I know who’ve lost are all pregnant now too. Feeling like an odd one out!

@emmatcc1I’m so sorry it was such a pain! And I’m so glad you got there eventually. Gives so much hope🤍

@RoseannesMammathank you my lovely, and sir sorry for yours too🤍 it’s such a horrific mind game isn’t it. It changes the way you see fertility and pregnancy forever following a loss/es. Awww congratulations 🥹

Just wondering how you're all ok doing now? Thank you