Give me some encouragement please

[Singingintherain]

My body is all over the place. I am looking for just a bit of support and encouragement from anyone who can offer or who feels the similar.

I have had previous miscarriages over the last year. I have only had one af since my last mc and that was a week late.

I have been waiting to OV and no sign of anything until a little cm this morning. I am not even sure it is cm. I think that I should be around cd24 today. I used to have a cycle of between 27 and 29 days regularly.

I have started with a dull ache this morning, but are not sure what this means. I did have this for a week before I got my last +++.

We have been bd'ing (sorry for too much info) everyday since cd12, so I think I left it late although my other pregnancies were conceived late in my cycles. We only missed cd20 and cd21.

No other symptoms that af is on its way either and I am not sure what to do next or how long to wait. I do not even know what I am waiting for.

Hi, I will give you some support and encouragement, I too have suffered mc's so I can relate to you on that level, last one last month at 4+5, this was classed as a chemical pregnancy, it still hurt tho All I can Say is don't give up hope and keep (shagging) I mean trying eventually we will get there.

I am just so fed up with everyone saying there is plenty of time etc. When you are so deperate time means nothing. I feel I have been permanently pregnant since June last year on and off.

I just wish I could get my head round everything and get myself back in order. I even feel that around the time first baby was due I went into mad state of nesting, with cleaning and organising and I do not know why as I have been pregnant again since then.

I laugh as I hurt my leg last week and really need to take some pain killer etc, but I know that they are dangerous in pregnancy, yet I am not even sure I am pregnant.

I think I need to let it all out. Very sorry to bore anyone with moaning, but thank you to anyone listening.

singing in the rain - no words of wisdom, just wanted to let you know I was "listening" its complete shit isn't it?

Dear singing in the rain

Just to say I do know how crap you must be feeling. After four months of ttc, I got pregnant in August 07 and then had a miscarriage in October. It broke my heart. I'll never forget staring at the screen and being told that sorry, there was no heart beat...after waiting a couple of months, as suggested by my doctor, started trying again and got pregnant in January. So happy for about 3 days but then miscarried almost straight away. Doctors said it was just bad luck etc. It wasn't so physically traumatic as the first but just as emotionally upsetting and draining.

Since the second miscarriage I too have had very irregular periods - used to have a period day 29 or 30 without fail and now my cycle is anything from 25-35 days. It just makes the agony of waiting each month to see if you are or not even more drawn out...

Me and DH are doing all we can to conceive - i.e. having lots of sex (!) - but so far no joy and feel so upset as each month passes. Felt particularly upset this month as if I hadn't had first MC, would have given birth around now. Instead, here I am, still trying with no baby on the way to show for it. Still hoping this month as AF has not arrived but tests so far say negative. Thus bracing myself for another month or trying-failing-crying etc.

Hang on in there...keep as strong as you can...not easy, though, I know. Just wanted to say you're not in this alone. There are so many of us out there going through this. It helps me to know that. Hope it helps you.

Lots of hugs, xx

Queenie, I can not believe how much your information relates exactly to mine.

Becuase my cycle is now irregular it does make it difficult to determine where you are. I am not sure if I have OV'd, going to OV, etc. etc.

My DH is very fustrated for me too and this is having an effect on everything. All the worry and stress for him is making it difficult in the bd'ing department

You just seem to keep waiting all the time for any positive signs. I have not other signs to say af is on way either apart from a little low abdominal pain which is nearly gone again.

I have not bought any pregnancy test sticks either as this will just tempt me to try. I am going to have to wait a little longer. I was hoping that my cycles could be regular again, then I would have been able to test from Sunday. I think that I will try sending off for some more. They are very expensive where I live and we do not have any shops that sell them like in England. They are from specialist pharmacies. I have to get them from the internet.

Just got to keep going and remaining positive. I know I am not alone and send everyone else my most sincere good luck wishes.