@Lucy040288i just wanted to do a proper update as I was a bit emotional last week. Overall it looks like my issue is implantation failure based on no blocked tubes, trying naturally for over a year, and having two failed transfers of euploid embryos. However, they have done pretty much every test and check they can do and can’t find anything that would suggest an embryo couldn’t implant so I am now in the dreaded “unexplained” category. My consultant said I should see that as a good thing as there is no reason why I can’t get pregnant again. But my pessimistic outlook only really leads me to believe there is something wrong and we can’t find it.
Re the spotting that I have been fixated on the whole time and convinced is linked in some way to the infertility, the consultant didn’t really have any answers. But he did say the lining shedding after my period had ended shouldn't really cause any issues with fertility. The spotting before my period coincides with my progesterone dropping off naturally so I think that is why that happens. When I had my first transfer using a natural cycle I had to top up progesterone twice and I didn’t have spotting that month after I came off the IVF drugs, presumably because the synthetic progesterone was taken away suddenly as opposed to dropping off gradually. I discussed taking progesterone at the end of my cycle with my consultant but he said he didn’t generally like doing that because it delays your natural period. He said if I get pregnant naturally, to take progesterone once I am pregnant. In any event, I don’t think this is the problem because I had plenty of progesterone on the two failed IVF transfers.
I asked about doing a MRI to check for adenomyosis which could account for the spotting but he said he didn’t think that was necessary as if I had severe adenomyosis, it would have been seen in the tests I have already done. An MRI could pick up mild adenomyosis. For the same reason, he didn’t think down regulation would help.
My iron levels are pretty low (probably from heavy periods) so I am going to do an iron infusion to see if that helps.
Because of my insistence to try to work out the cause of the implantation failure, I am going to do a test for natural killer cells, which my consultant admitted is a controversial area but there are some small studies that support it.
Finally, for my next transfer I am going to be put on blood thinners. This will help blood flow to the uterus. The consultant explained that if I did have mild adenomyosis, this is what would be prescribed as adenomyosis restricts blood flow to the uterus. That was his reason for not needing an MRI- because we will essentially treat the adenomyosis anyway.
I also tried acupuncture the other day (I always thought the day I did that would be the day I lost all hope as I really don’t believe in that sort of thing). I wasnt particularly convinced and didn’t really find it relaxing so don’t think I’ll bother again as it isn’t cheap.
So that’s it really. My husband is more optimistic but I am trying to start to come to terms with only having one child. It’s really hard to picture my family that way as it feels so incomplete (I always wanted 3 children, let alone 2!) and I feel sad for my daughter not having siblings. I expect you are having all the same thoughts as me. It’s difficult but I need to try to not let it ruin everything I do have.