I’ve tested early (and having a melt down) frozen embryo transfer

[Scoobywho24]

So I tested yesterday at 6dp5dt, I wasn’t thinking straight and just wanted to see that shiny positive. Anyway I done a few tests and they all had a faint line. Yesterday I used a digital weeks indicator and it was negative. This morning 7dp5dt I have a ‘pregnant 1-2 weeks’ but still very very faint lines on strip tests.

for context this is my 2nd frozen transfer after waiting over 2 years to get my head right after the last one ended in a miscarriage. It started with very slow line progression, then slow rising hcg. It ended up being an 8 week long ordeal that I have ptsd from.

I told myself if I ever done it again I would not test but it has triggered everything from the past and I am convinced that this will end the same. Looking for some support or words of wisdom. Trying to seem ok infront of husband as he wasn’t happy I tested early. I don’t know how to take my mind off it and I’m spiralling.

Try not to panic, easier said than done x
its reassuring that you’ve had positive tests, I’ve had 3 babies and tested early with a very strong positive then repeated the tests out of curiosity and would get fainter tests some days .

relax and retest further along . No mc symptoms is also a good sign as your body would show signs before any signs on a preg test x

When were you supposed to test?

I know exactly how hard it is and the unbelievable panic this will have sent you to. Do you have a follow up with your clinic?

I would try the classic reassurance 'Today, I am pregnant' and know you cannot know further.

I'm currently pregnant myself and have had bleeding and am going through the agony of waiting to see if it's all going to be okay - this is a natural pregnancy that happened as soon as we got our IVF referral!!!! So I really do understand the fear. Not much helps but time does pass, you WILL get your answers and trying to mindfully accept nothing you do can alter the course is good for your mental health.