No, I'm really grateful LBOT. It's exactly the kind of advice I need and why I won't be going anywhere, if you don't mind. You've really given me food for thought. It made me realise that if the worst was to happen, I really would want to be able to call my mum up, and I'd hate to have to pretend everything was fine when it wasn't - with my closest family and friends, anyway. Thank you.
Lottie You don't need a spell. I will be your own personal good luck mascot. I will concentrate my thoughts on BFPs for everyone (everyone here, I mean - otherwise there'd be chaos!).