Hello Again

[Mrs777]

Hello
I was here December 2023 but sadly miscarried, I’m trying again, my last period was December 21st and we did the deed 3, 4 and 6th, I had my usual intense 30 mins of ovulation cramps the 6th, January I’m due my period on the 20th, would you wait till 20th to test or earlier?

Omg 😵‍💫
im so nauseous it’s actually ridiculous but so far my tests are negative!! Even todays. My sense of smell is insane and my appetite is zero but still no positives. Day 14 post ovulation tomorrow so god knows.. I’m stressed and scared it’s negative but I feel so pregnant it’s weird!!!

@Mrs777 honestly I have googled and googled and googled. To the point now my instagram is literally just videos of people taking pregnancy tests 🙃 hate the algorithm!!

We are the same, 14dpo tomorrow. I know people say that you symptom spot when TTC so you just notice more but I don't feel anything like when AF is due. So it's really strange to be having BFNs. Dr Google reckons it's completely normal for negatives prior to AF but I don't know whether it's just because we lurk the forums and see lots of pre AF positives?

My MC was a pre AF positive so I was totally expecting a BFP over the weekend this time!!

What is going on?! Is it a full moon? Haha

Are you testing again in the morning or just waiting to see if AF shows up?

Omg so funny you say that about the full moon!! I’m so lost my MC December 23, November 4th we done the deed, the 17th I started getting positives so now I’m like wtf!!!! I should be full blown positives by now I just don’t get it!! I’m going to test again tomo cause that’s when I’m due. But
i feel stressed AF

@Mrs777 try not to stress which I know is ridiculous to say because of course you are! I'm trying to think of it as stressing about it won't change the outcome.
I think that's what I find so hard about TTC, there's just not control about any of it. All of it is just waiting for a little miracle to happen while tracking and doing the best you can.

Let me know how you get on. I'll update in the morning. Praying we have our BFPs tomorrow!! 🤞🏼✨x

Thank you ♥️
Positive vibes to you!! I’ll update too xx

Well no AF - I usually come on in the evening/overnight so was happy to wake up to nothing. But also did a clear blue and a premom test and both negative 😢

I'm on CD32 so I think this is just a really long cycle for me maybe.
Going to wear a pad to work because I think I might be out for this cycle. Trying to stay positive that I am pregnant but the negative tests really aren't helping that positivity 😂

Hope your doing ok @Mrs777 and have some good news this morning 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

I’m out my period arrived this morning 😣so disappointed. My last positive showed on 11 dpo so I worried this would be the outcome, so strange as my nausea and sense of smell has been crazy. Aw well maybe next month. Fingers crossed for you! No period is a good sign.

Ah I'm so sorry @Mrs777
It's heartbreaking every bloody month isn't it. I hope you're ok. I hate the way our bodies can convince us of something that isn't happening.

I'll let you know how I get on today xx

I no it’s horrible. Just have to keep going 😞

Good luck for testing later 🙌🏼🙌🏼

Sorry to read your update OP and sending lots of baby dust your way for a BFP very soon.

I'm 42 and it's definitely harder at this age but it's not impossible - I'm currently 30+3 with DD2, conceived naturally and all going well so it can and does happen.

My best advice is to avoid early testing as it can be so detrimental to your mental health. I realised I was getting obsessed and decided never to test again until I'd missed a period by at least a few days. It's hard at first but worth it.

I was getting perimenopause symptoms and my periods had become long and irregular so every month I was convincing myself I was definitely pregnant and I had all the symptoms etc but then, nothing. I swear your body starts playing some very cruel tricks on you when TTC.

When I was actually pregnant, I had no symptoms at all until after I missed a period. I only actually tested as I was on holiday and suddenly threw up one morning at breakfast, I was a week late by that point and got a really strong unmistakable positive test.

Thank you for your message, I’ll defo follow your advice. My periods are bang on every month 32 day cycle, I’m going to try the ovulation kits this month and see, I usually can tell when i do ovulate so I think I’ve got it right but clearly not.

Congrats on your pregnancy 🙌🏼🙌🏼 that’s such lovely news x

Did you get some good news?

@Mrs777 I haven't retested tonight. Ive had the weirdest day. Had a spot of blood when I wiped in work and nothing else all day. This is the weirdest cycle I've ever had. Been craving chocolate all day so I think AF might happen tonight/tomorrow?

Negative again this morning. Getting pissed off now.
CD33 either want AF or a BFP 😩

Aw that’s annoying, least If AF comes it’s another cycle closer to being pregnant well that was my thinking yesterday morning as I sat awaiting test results, wiped and there she was 😱😞

Well AF arrived this afternoon. Painful and heavy 😩 half of me was glad it finally come after the negative tests and the other half was so sad it wasn't a miracle pregnancy.

@Mrs777 you are right, onwards to the next one 🤞🏼 x

Aw sorry to hear that, mine is the exact same 😣😣

We got this.. next month 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼