Possibly pg after ectopic in January

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Hi, I am a day before my period. I've been feeling unbelievably weird recently, really really emotional crying at everything... I usually have cramps coming up to my period but nothing.

I already have 2 beautiful kids (2&3) and I've only been with my current partner 3 months tomorrow. I am going to test tomorrow if my period doesn't come but just wanted to speak to someone about it

I don't know if I'm ready for another baby, the pregnancies were hard, labour hurt and I got postpartum depression with both of my babies. I know what I would probably do if I was but it scares me, we've been using the pull out method mainly because I've had sooo many bad experiences with contraception but yeah I just feel incredibly weird idk how to shake it.

I also want to add I had a ectopic in January and had to have my right tube taken out, I wasn't told wether it would effect my fertility or not

Hey OP, sending love as this sounds like a tough situation. A FRER or boots early detection should be accurate now and most tests will be accurate in a couple of days.

I'm guessing you already know the pull out method isn't an effective method of contraception - some mens pre-cum contains sperm, some doesn't and it's hard to know which camp until you find out the hard way! Maybe Natural Cycles, condoms or the non-hormonal pill would suit you? I also struggle with hormonal contraception and have tried these successfully.

Best of luck for whatever the outcome is x