Having been through all of this and what you have been through I would agree with others.
Your levels are ‘normal’ for a normal person if that makes sense.
I tested in the normal range while ttc. I had a miscarriage too (actually two both not in thyroxine), but with the same levels had a healthy baby. I was above 3 both times. What they did find is that during pregnancy I needed to take thyroxine.
So my best advice is breath. Please don’t get yourself worked up and stressed which is the last thing you need. The levels you are presenting shouldn’t prevent you from getting pregnant nor should they automatically mean a miscarriage. I had normal levels (so above 3) and had two kids absolutely fine.
What you also discover is that 3 to me and 3 to you can and may feel very differently. You aren’t ‘too high’ and the increase is marginal so again please don’t worry.
It may be worth speaking to another GP but my gut feel is they will tell you the same. Being below 2.5 is ‘ideal’ but not a deal breaker and not necessarily the reason for miscarriage. Ranges can differ over time so being so close to the ideal may not warrant medication. Also while you are in the normal range they may not want to medicate you to push you lower if you are ttc. It isn’t as easy as just popping a pill. It’s months and months of finding the right levels, blood tests and checking. They up the meds each time and it isn’t advised ttc during this time.
Unfortunately miscarriages which I’m sure you know can happen for hundreds of reasons which have nothing to do with your thyroid and unfortunately miscarriages are quite common and ‘normal’ no matter how awful.
I say these things not to dismiss you in any way but to try and give reassurance on your thyroid.
Good luck.