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10dpo bfn and feel so flat :(

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Spinkyttc · 26/04/2024 18:01

I really just need to vent and get it out. We’ve been trying for a year (I know it’s not that long in the grand scheme of things) and I have never even seen a faint line in all the time I’ve tested and never even had a chemical.

I’m getting to the point where I feel it will never happen. My periods are textbook regular, I believe I ovulate as have a LH peak around cycle day 12/13 every month, my OH’s SA is all normal. Only thing I had which I thought was the issue was a polyp, which I had removed in March and then had a Hycosy this cycle, which showed my tubes are now clear (after pushing a bit harder with the foam as was something in there to start with). I’m now 10 dpo and just don’t feel like this cycle is it, my boobs are feeling less sore than they did and I just don’t feel it.

I’m struggling to stay positive when I just feel like it’ll never happen 💔

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Spinkyttc · 26/04/2024 20:13

Bump x

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Peonies12 · 26/04/2024 21:02

Not much advice but I only got positives that day my period was due (1 MC and 1 current pregnancy). Have you looked at acupuncture? Really helped me mentally.

SWeal · 28/04/2024 22:50

I’m so sorry your feeling low 😔 I’m also 10dpo today and know AF is coming - this is cycle 7 for me. Feeling pretty similar, feel like it’s never going to happen.
As PP said, have you tried acupuncture or fertility massages? Both have really helped me when AF has arrived and i’m feeling really low. They’re relaxing and make me feel like i’m being pro-active. Just having it booked in each month makes AF arriving sting a little less.
I also have textbook periods, ovulate day 13/14, using ov sticks, pre-seed etc and still not happened. I’m booked in for some bloods with GP this week.
Hope you’re feeling a bit better since you posted, be kind to yourself xx

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