Hellooo! Trying to put a long story short - myself (31) and husband (38) have been trying for 2+ years. I have lazy fallopian tubes, stage II Endo and low AMH (8 pmol). We had a failed IVF cycle in March and the the cycle straight after, we had a natural pregnancy that ended in a chemical at 4.5 weeks (I know, wtf - I did a post about it when it was happening). The IVF response was good - 22 eggs, 14 fertilised, 6 good embryos, 1 went in me and 5 in the freezer. So.. we have the 5 waiting for us. My FET is booked for my next cycle.. my question is..
Should we continue to try naturally? Or just wait it out for our FET in May? I am high risk for ectopic because of my tubes and have no idea why the random chemical happened. HCG didn’t go above 30. And it was my first ever positive test/pregnancy. I’m so flipping tempted to see if the IVF has just made me fertile.. to see if it will happen again. But if another chemical or ectopic happens, it will surely push back our FET. Conundrum. My gut says yolo.
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FET booked - but should we try naturally beforehand?
GoldenRetriever1 · 16/04/2024 14:20
GoldenRetriever1 · 16/04/2024 17:20
@Fallopianfun I had a laparoscopy and HSG last October, the dye went all the way through (I.e. not blocked), but it took a very long time to go through. My consultant said that means my tubes are lazy and puts me at risk of ectopics, because the embryo will nestle in the tubes and not reach the uterus. In the photographs I saw, my tubes were also convoluted/bendy. She said it could just be a congenital defect, born that way.
It might mean you have the same as me - hence why we were scurried down the IVF path. 🥴
GoldenRetriever1 · 16/04/2024 19:05
@Fallopianfun it might be worth considering IVF if you’ve already had two ectopics. I haven’t had one to my knowledge.. that’s what I’m obviously concerned about by trying naturally. Are you able to approach your doctor with the idea of IVF? It can be a bit of a hefty process, but some breeze through it. I was on the highest highest dose due to my egg reserve and I didn’t suffer too much. Anyway, I really wish you luck on your journey! We will get there eventually.
Spooky about magnesium… I’ve been taking it religiously for the last month. Maybe that’s why the natural chemical pregnancy happened.
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