Not pregnant after a chemical

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Sigh! Just as the title reads really. Not sure what I’m after. Just somewhere to rant and get support.

I conceived first cycle last month but sadly ended in a CP. I read so much on here about positive stories of conceiving the cycle after a chemical I really got my hopes up. And as it worked so quickly before I naively thought it would again.

BFN daily for the last week. Yes I’m obsessed and going crazy! 13dpo and no joy so I’m assuming I’m out and feel like AF will start any moment.

Im now spiralling thinking it will never happen. I know I need to have a word with myself as it’s only cycle 2 of TTC and need to brace myself for a potential long ride.

Anyone on here who didn’t conceive the cycle after a chemical but did cycles after ?

Ttc is stressful and exhausting, i‘m sorry about your chemical pregnancy but please remember you’re at the start of this journey.
I had a chemical pregnancy and didn’t even feel hopeful about the next month as I put it all down to hearsay! It took me a further 6 months to get pregnant. The chemical pregnancy was over a year into me trying to get pregnant.

I think you need to try take the pressure off of yourself. Stress is going to make things a lot harder. You’re not out until you have your period, I would really try avoid testing early. I know it’s easy for me to say but it costs you a fortune and makes you feel rubbish when you get negative tests. I’d only take a test on the lead up to your period or even wait until you’re late.

I’m so sorry you went through that it’s so hard!
I had a MMC 3rd baby in October 2023. I thought it would be quick but not conceived yet. It took a while for my periods to go back to normal, they are pretty normal now and trying again. I used the clear blue digital ovulation monitor the month I conceived and we only DTD once.. am using thw monitor again this cycle, I just figure it may work again. Also taking maca root, high dose VIT D, Vit C, collagen, folic acid , multi vitamin.
not sure if this will work but will report back.

Thank you both !

@Hiddenvoice you’re right. Testing early has sent me absolutely potty this month. And I go from being upset to thinking hopeful that the next day I’ll get my bfp and it’s a never ending rollercoaster of emotions. I use the IC so not expensive but emotionally damaging none the less!

@gtx1797h sorry about your loss. I used OPKs for the first time this cycle. Wasn’t going to but heard CP can delay ov so wanted to track. That’s another reason why I’m so down as feel like we really gave it a good try. DTD daily over fertile window. I’m taking daily vit D and folic acid.

Anyone else? ☺️
14dpo today bfn. AF deffo on her way 😞