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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Some ladies went to P P P, to see what they could C C C, but all that they could C C C, was a massive BFP P P (We hope!) - For people waiting to TTC, and those that can't wait.

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popcornprincess · 27/03/2008 09:57

Here we go ladies

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NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 16:48

I am by no means an expert, I am only repeating stuff I've read on here!

OV'ing doesn't happen that whole time.

I think the following is true, but as I say is only what I have gathered over the years on here:

It seems that for a number of years everything has been based on a 28 day cycle, with OV happening on CD14 (half way) but it isn't quite as simple as that. Although 28 days is an 'average' cycle, most people don't actually have a 28 day cycle, and CD14 being the average OV day, again doesn't mean most people OV on CD14. (Confusing? It is about to get even more so!)

What happens is you get your period, then at some point later in the cycle you will OV, but this can vary greatly and is the cause for most people's irregular cycles, but this can also work the other way, if this phase of the cycle is always the same for someone then their cycles will be regular. So for instance, you could OV on CD15 one month, and your next period could show up say 12 days later, giving you a 27 day cycle, but the next cycle you could OV on CD17, and get your next period 12 days later giving you a 29 day cycle. Normally the time between you OV'ing and getting your next period would be the same every cycle, and if the time between between OV'ing and getting your period differs significantly, this can actually prevent you either getting pregnant or not being able to carry naturally (though there are meds you can take to sort this out).

This is why people will sometimes say they've OV'ed late so they will expect their period to be late. Also, people believe that stress can delay their period, it isn't the period that the stress delay's it is OV'ing that it delays.

It is all a lot more complicated as that, but I'm not sure how else to explain it, I think even what I have written will take a good few read through's before you actually 'get it'. I wonder if there is a decent website that explains it all better?

Will google, hang on

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 16:49

Evening ladies hope you have all had a good day.

Kay well done with the dieting. I have thought about dieting but that?s as far as I have got at the moment. DD got lots of Easter eggs and she is too little to eat them all so I have been helping (a lot).

I was a size 6 before I got pg with dd and weighed 8.5 stone (I am 5ft 6)!!! I am now...... well let?s just say lardy and I am happier than I was then because I was always obsessing about how I looked and "if my bum looked big" etc. Now I don?t care and it feels exhilarating to say the least....

Right where did my dp hind the eggs.....

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 16:49

Ohhhhhh BB, don't do it tonight, wait till morning, much better chance of getting a BFP

Right off to google....!

BeMyLilBaby · 28/03/2008 16:52

good idead i shall do it tomo morning, i shall eve wee MSU into a cup...for scientific clarity of course

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 16:53

"HIDE" the eggs

BMB fingers crossed for you that would be a turn up wouldn't it...

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 16:58

Christobel Have started a thread, because I think someone on here will be able to explain (or find an easy to follow explanation) better than some of the sites I have just peaked at!

LL I'll hide your eggs in my ever expanding tummy, if it would be any help?! Please? LOL

kayzisbroody · 28/03/2008 17:01

Hello, I am back. I got my little bro to walk there with me. Was quite good actually as he wanted to push ds. 2 hours to get there and back, took quicker than I thought.

I'm bloody exhausted. But it was worth it as its my new Nintendo DS. Dh threw the old one down the stairs last week. Serves him right for trying to carry too much at once.

I have to take a HPT into my friend at work tomorrow evening. She is 45 and hasnt had af since January. She thinks its the menopause as her mum had it young. She was also sterilised. But in true MN fashion I said she had to test even to just put her mind at rest.

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 17:24

NJ step away from my (well my dd's)eggs.......

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 17:29

What egg's? mmmmwwwhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaa (that is my evil laugh BTW)

Ooooooh forgot BB, how did the work thing go? Have you got a job?

tinkerbell2 · 28/03/2008 17:29

evening all

went to drs going to come of citalopram antidepressants ye
one every other day for one wk then stop them ye

cris good luck
k you did very well to walk all that way i have a nintendo ds a black one they are cool!!
what games have you got?
i have zelda,donkeykong climber,cooking with mama,brain training,eye training,nintendogs,animal crossing,princess peach.
bmlb glad that all went well @ work good luck for testing tomorrow

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 17:31

Tut, just re-read your other post BB I only registered the testing bit LOL

Well congrats then Full steam ahead to Babyland...... OMG, Babyland is another banned expression OK?!!

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 17:33

Right I have hiden dd eggs so that you cant get to them!!!

Babyland?? Where did that come from?? Wish I lived there though.

kayzisbroody · 28/03/2008 17:35

I have both the brain training ones, animal crossing, cooking mama, Happy cooking, my word coach, the Phoenix wright ones(they are brilliant), Room 215, pokemon, nintendogs. I have got a white one but I think I might buy those stickers you can get for them.

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 17:37

Kay would your friend like to be pg?? That must be awful going through the menopause early. I know someone who went through it at 30, it was so sad.

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 17:38

Kay, don't bother with the stickers if you ever want it to look smart again. DS1 had one of the original DS's a blue one, he wanted stickers on it, it looks a right bloody mess now, he then decided he wanted the Lite version so he a shiney lovely looking black one, and an old disgusting looking blue thing that looks like it fell out of a.... don't know what, something horrible anyway!

LL, hiding them is no, good I can smell chocolate from miles away! Not sure where Bbayland came from, but it can return to where ever it was pretty sharpish!

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 17:40

I agree NJ hiding them is no good because I have to get up to eat them .

kayzisbroody · 28/03/2008 17:41

No I dont think she would, she has said she doesnt want to be pg. She has 4 grown up kids and she has only been with her dp about 4/5 months. She has said she'd never get rid of a baby no matter what.

At 30, that must be so horrible

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 17:44

Just don't put the eggs next to the pooter, I have found the greedy pooter eats them all

30 is very young, a lot of people haven't even thought about starting a family by then

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 17:45

Yes it was very distressing for her, however she has moved on now and is a foster carer so she says she feels fulfilled and now feels like a full woman again..

I was really pleased for her she will make a wonderful mum if only for short periods of time.

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 17:49

Awww I have great admiration for foster carers, my mum foster's, I honestly don't know how she does it sometimes, but then who knows when mine have all grown up I might feel differently!

kayzisbroody · 28/03/2008 17:50

Thats nice, I think foster carers do an amazing job. MIL is one and as much as I dislike her, I cant help liking her because of it. But its very very hard. She had a little boy from 4 days old until he was 15mo because of his parents taking it to court and stuff and she was devastated when he finally got adopted. She misses him so much. In fact we all do, he was a gorgeous little boy.

Can you all slap me please???

I really want a take away, dh is at work until 9 and I said I'd cook and I cant be bothered now!!

NatalieJane · 28/03/2008 17:54

think of the diet.

It is that exact situation as to how I don't know how my mum does it Kay, she has got a lad with her at the moment, he has been with her for about 3 years now, he had a very troubled home life with his mum and numourous 'dads', he still has some troubles but he is so much better since he has been with her, the difference is amazing. He has gone from being on the road to prison and drugs etc. to really being one of the family, he plays with all the grandson's really well, and is turning into a nice young man. Makes you wonder where he would be now if there wasn't people like my mum around.

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 17:55

It must be hard when you have spent time trying to ?fix? a childs life to then watch them going back to the people who ?broke? it in the first place.

I know that not all children in foster care have come from an abusive background but a lot have, and I just couldn't release a child back to that iyswim.

I have nothing but admiration for the families that do it, the strength of the foster parents is astounding. They make a difference to so many children?s lives, Tasha has only been doing it for 3 years and she has had 15 children pass through her doors.

kayzisbroody · 28/03/2008 17:55

My Nan used to be a foster carer and she ended up adopting 2 of the kids she looked after, I'd be like that I'd never want them to leave.

lardylumps · 28/03/2008 18:00

Oh no I cant believe I put her name on MN, hope she doesn't go on MN