Hi
I have been ttc my 2nd for 9 months now with no success.
For a long time I felt unable to bring the subject of having another up with my dp.
He was always dead set against it.
However shortly before I turned 37 the broodiness came to a hilt and after alot of discussion my dp did reluctantly agree.
I realised at the time that falling pregnant at 37 could prove difficult.
Early menopause is in my family between the ages of 38 and 40.
When I was trying to persuade my dp I mentioned that I may not have much time whnever he said I will think about it.
Now here I am worrying that I am going into early menopause.
The problem is that my cycle has been all over the place recently with long absences, and then short and then long cycles.
Now I am on cd 58 and nothing again.
I am convinced that I am entering menopause and that I will probably not have any more children.
My sisters periods had completely stopped by the age of 40 same goes for my mom.
I am due to have hormonal tests to try and find out what is going on.
In the meantime I feel like crying as I really feel thats its too late for me.
I don,t know what I will do if I get a definate diagnoses of menopause.