I've decided to start trying to conceive this month. I have a child who is 5 and have had four miscarriages since and a neonatal loss - we took a break of a year after the last one but want to start trying again. Cause of early miscarriages and premature birth unknown. I'm nearly 38. I've been a little over weight generally (BMI 25-26.0) for years, however have comfort eaten and sat around the last year and put on around 5kg. I'm trying to lose some weight and move more as clearly this is not good for me, however wondered whether it is more sensible at this stage to take up some exercise and reduce portions, or to try to lose weight more quickly. Does anyone have any experience of something similar (sorry a rather personal question)? Thanks.