Me and dh started ttc baby 4 in july after a suprise early loss in march that made us realise how much we really wanted another. We haven't been tracking or trying too much just stopped using protection and seeing what happens. Out of the blue and shockingly my dads recent colonoscopy showed a mass and we are now awaiting biopsy results and a treatment pathway for what looks very likely to be colon cancer I live a 4 hour flight away but am very close to my dad and know my mum will need my support as and when i can get home we have said it might be best for us to postpone ttc while all this is unfolding sound's like ill need to be fit to fly and look after my mental health during these stressful times but im already 36 nearly 37 it terrifies me i could run out of time to ttc if we postpone i really am in two minds...