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Can men half come?!

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 22:26

Hi! So I used the pullout method last weekend. I was on top (probably a bit silly looking back!) and he said to me “it might be too late anyway….actually it’s ok, I got it” pulled out of me and I finished him off with my mouth (he did come). Today, I’ve noticed the smell down there that I get when he’s come inside me a couple of days later. Is it possible that he half came?! And then carried on and properly came? He can’t come twice, he goes soft afterwards. So I’m not sure what happened. He swears he didn’t come inside, but what made him say it might be too late then? Just wondered if it’s possible?

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Wolfiefan · 12/10/2023 22:31

There is no such method. You had unprotected sex.

donquixotedelamancha · 12/10/2023 22:34

Yes. Sperm is present in the pre-ejaculate.

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 22:38

Thanks for the responses, but it’s not what I asked really. I wanted to know if a man can come slightly and then come properly straight after…

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VeridicalVagabond · 12/10/2023 22:43

Simply, yes.

Loubelle70 · 12/10/2023 22:44

AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 22:38

Thanks for the responses, but it’s not what I asked really. I wanted to know if a man can come slightly and then come properly straight after…

Yes. He could have a little then finished off after out

Burnamer · 12/10/2023 22:47

I don’t mean to be awful but why are you having sex with someone you don’t trust enough to discuss this with? Especially with no condom?

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 22:51

I did discuss it but he swears he didn’t, but it’s just the smell that’s confusing me really, it’s like when he does finish properly inside

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ShellySarah · 12/10/2023 22:55

I've had a guy do this before. He had a condom on though. He was young and my first bf too. He was sometimes confused and didn't know if he'd come or not.

I was his first gf and his first sexual relationship too. As he got more used to having sex he realised that leading up to the main event there would often be a flood of pre ejaculate in the moments before hand.

That's probably what that was.

octodrive · 12/10/2023 22:58

I would be more concerned his sperm makes your vagina smell days after sex - did you both get tested before starting unprotected sex?

Maybabyhopefull · 12/10/2023 22:59

Yes. Pre come can get you pregnant still

MummyDummyNow · 12/10/2023 22:59

Completely agree with @octodrive I have never had a smell after sex. Has this always happened or just with this partner?

Loubelle70 · 12/10/2023 23:01

i know it can take a while to 'expel' but if you can smell it ...could you have BV?

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 23:03

Yeah we’ve both been tested, it’s nothing like that and it’s not gross. I can just tell when he’s finished inside me, it’s just different that’s all xx

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 23:04

Come always has a smell to me, like chlorine or something 🤣

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VeridicalVagabond · 12/10/2023 23:06

Are you wanting a baby?

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 12/10/2023 23:09

AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 23:04

Come always has a smell to me, like chlorine or something 🤣

Yes me too, so strange to read that others can't smell it?! There is a tree that's smells like it too.

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 23:15

I don’t mind either way, I’ve been thinking about it, but I’m not settled one way or the other. I’ve got 2 kids already and I’m getting close to the age where I need to decide if I want anymore so if it happens, it would be a happy accident x

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octodrive · 12/10/2023 23:20

if it happens, it would be a happy accident

It would hardly be considered an accident, you had unprotected sex, you knew that you could get pregnant.

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 23:33

I know that, but I wasn’t actively TTC, but yes, if it happens, I’d be happy

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justanothermanicmonday1 · 12/10/2023 23:38

AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 23:04

Come always has a smell to me, like chlorine or something 🤣

Hahaha ditto!

SM4713 · 12/10/2023 23:43

Yes, darling, you were a happy accident!!! 🙄

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AlwaysLate13 · 12/10/2023 23:48

Not that it’s any of your business 🤣 I wasn’t asking for input about pregnancy, thanks though. Any baby that comes along will be very well looked after and loved, just like my other 2. Surely that’s all that matters, no?

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Ttcmumma · 13/10/2023 11:26

A fair bit of judgement on here 🤦🏼‍♀️ I know what you mean about the smell. When the semen comes back out of you a day or two later, I too can tell the difference between my own discharge and semen. It's not a sign or anything wrong, it's just quite obvious if you're observant. It may well be precum Hun, doesn't mean you'll deffo get pregnant but just be aware you may well do x

octodrive · 13/10/2023 13:00

Ttcmumma · 13/10/2023 11:26

A fair bit of judgement on here 🤦🏼‍♀️ I know what you mean about the smell. When the semen comes back out of you a day or two later, I too can tell the difference between my own discharge and semen. It's not a sign or anything wrong, it's just quite obvious if you're observant. It may well be precum Hun, doesn't mean you'll deffo get pregnant but just be aware you may well do x

A smell can be normal but equally can be a sign of something wrong. It's not judgemental to advise caution when having unprotected sex.

ChickpeaPie · 13/10/2023 13:05

People are so negative about withdrawal method! We used it for years. You’re right though, going on top is a dangerous game.
I think yes he could probably have a mini orgasm then a bigger one. If it’s not well controlled then better think about some other form of contraception

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