Hi everyone, so I’m feeling very alone tonight so just wanted to post (please don’t comment any hate, I already know everything you’ll say). I’ve been seeing someone long distance for nearly 3 years. We both have kids with other people so neither of us can move. Everything’s been ok lately though apart from that fact. However, tonight he tells me that he wants to just be friends and that it’ll never work out. I’m broken, to say the least. It hurts so bad 😭 thing is, we’ve been using the pull out “method” for a around 6 months. Nothing has ever come of it, but we only see each other around once a month. I saw him this weekend just gone, and now I’m stressing because I was ovulating at the time. He pulled out a minute or 2 in advance and we did it twice on 2 separate days so shouldn’t have been any swimmers on the outside. Just wondering if anyone has had pull out work for a while and then fail? He did pee and shower in between, but I don’t know. We had talked about children previously and that it wouldn’t be a bad thing, but now this has happened tonight, it wouldn’t be ideal 🤦🏻♀️