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TTC for 16 years

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ChezzieGirl · 09/10/2023 13:02

Long story short, Hubby and I have been ttc for 16 years with failed IVF attempts, stillborns, early miscarriages, ectopic pregnancy, you name it, we've had it.

My girlfriend completed a frozen transfer last month and the embryo didn't stick so she is in the process of miscarrying as we speak (under 4 weeks).

I have a 28 day cycle and on CD21 and CD22 I spotted, very light, extremely mild cramping which has now disappeared and I am on CD26 now with unprotected fun that occurred on CD13. Whilst I am in the TWW, I am concerned that whilst my best friend is grieving, we may have finally conceived our miracle baby. I haven't done a HPT yet as google states its a bit early and to wait for the missed period (2 days away).

I guess I am here to ask if my dates for everything are within the realms of possibility for us? I want to be slightly happy about our possibility but my heart is breaking for my best friend. Normally my bestie and I would be counting the dates together, sending pictures and chatting about what could be. I cant do that at the moment so Im turning to you guys.

I dont want to get a negative hpt and be disheartened so I really want to wait until missed period. I dont even know why I am writing this - I just really want to share my experience with someone. Thoughts anyone?

No real symptoms either - I pee alot but I drink alot of water every day. I have felt sick the last 2 nights when I go to bed but nothing major. Breasts don't ache at all. More tired than usual but I sleep poorly also.

Thanks all :)

OP posts:
Summer2424 · 09/10/2023 21:06

Hi @ChezzieGirl
Definitely possible hun, this could be your bfp x
Your friend will be so happy for you don't worry.

VolvoFan · 17/12/2023 18:41

Hey, OP, was there a happy ending?

Outliers · 17/12/2023 19:02

I would take things as they come. Get the BFP, and decide how best to approach depending on how your friend is feeling.

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