Hello,
I am wondering if anyone has any advice? I had a MC in June, I was 10 weeks at the time and I was absolutely heartbroken. I got pregnant in the first cycle we really tried and I was so excited at the time after never feeling maternal before.
I felt so ashamed of the MC, I am only due back at work this week and the thought of facing my bosses who knew is making me not want to do back, despite them being lovely to me.
I had the discussion with my partner and decided that we would like to TTC after having a period, but now I am wondering if my want to get pregnant so badly is just a way of me dealing with the MC, it’s something else to focus on, a craving for what could have been.
The last month I have been BBT charting and it seems to have completely consumed me, now I am wondering if it would be worth just having a month or so off thinking about it, no charting, no testing and just seeing what happens. Maybe the pressure I am putting on myself to conceive again is affecting me more than I think.
I would love to hear from anyone else in the same position, thanks for reading.