1DPO... Any tww buddies?

[Kellyaust]

Officially back to 1dpo...2nd cycle after MMC. Anyone else??

@Twocatstwodogs ah ok makes sense. I had a chemical pregnancy earlier on in the year and im so scared itl happen again. I wanted an early scan for reassurance.

@Kellyaust Congratulations 🎉 so pleased for you and you so so so deserve it 🥰 I bet you can’t stop testing 🥰 I haven’t posted on here for a while as I’ve been trying not to stress myself out and do the whole ‘it’ll happens when it happens’.

@thejollytrolleydolly I’m in exactly the same boat as you.. a stark white bfn yesterday (12/13dpo) but I had dark brown spotting from CD19-23 of a 28 day cycle which I’ve never had before. I’m due on tomorrow so unless I’ve had a vvvv early and vvvvv light period, I’ll test again tomorrow 🤞 or Thursday if I can hold out.

@TK220440 it's so strange isn't it?! I've just had one wipe of pink/brown and then nothing else! Can't even reach my cervix now 😅 why are bodies so annoying?! Xx

@thejollytrolleydolly They are aren’t they! I got excited as I thought I might be implantation at cd19 (clearly old blood, no red blood) but clear bfn on a IC (although it is a 20miu and I tested at 4pm). Are you testing again tomorrow?

@TK220440 yeah if my period hasn't come I'll deffo test in the morning 😊 will you? Xx

@thejollytrolleydolly I’ll try to hold out until Thursday. I only have 2 IC’s left and don’t want to spend money on a FRER just yet! It’s the most convinced I’ve been that I was pregnant this month after the spotting didn’t turn into a period so I don’t want the disappointment again ☹️

@TK220440 and @thejollytrolleydolly
i am also in the same boat I tested with a FRER this morning and got a BNF
do you get any signs AF is about to show? I don’t get any cramps but getting lots from 10dpo I’m guessing if I was pregnant It would if shown up on a FRER ☺️

To add I’m 12dpo today

@Huriya totally! I’m sure it you explain they would scan you I’d hope

@Rightnow1245 @thejollytrolleydolly Ive had really bad cramping and sore boobs since ovulation but the last week I’ve been sleeping all of the time and so tired! Also increased appetite. I don’t know if the very very light bleed (only used a liner a day) from CD19-23 was a VERY early period of something else. But no sign of AF and I’m rarely late.

@TK220440 @thejollytrolleydolly thank you, i actually haven't been testing coz I didn't want to stress myself lol

Only thing that was different for me this cycle really was my cervix was firm... It's usually super soft and that's what got me thinking!!

@Twocatstwodogs sooooo glad to hear this congratulations and breathe ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@thejollytrolleydolly Stark white BFN for me this morning ☹️ have you tested?

@TK220440 yep and I'm pretty sure it was negative! Thought I saw a shadow but nothing to write home about. Still no af though! X

What day are you on now @TK220440? I also did a test this morning and it was BFN I’m counting myself out because I’m sure I would have a BFP by 13dpo.. I mean there’s a tiny chance but I just feel like it’s not our month!

@thejollytrolleydolly @Rightnow1245 I think I’d be 13dpo today.. for the first time in the 14 months ttc I was actually convinced I’m pregnant but I think it definitely would have shown by now x

@TK220440 I am sorry your ttc journey has been easy! I mean we definitely are not out until AFshows… my SIL didn’t show positive until 15dpo and she’s was tracking ovulation so know when she ovulated 🥰 so we still do have a chance x

Will you test again or wait for AF to show.. I might do one more on AF due date then I’m not sure 🤦‍♀️

@TK220440 I'm out, af has just arrived properly so that's me done! I know it's hard when it's your body but I have 2 friends who didn't get a positive until a week after af was due! So it's definitely possible. It's so easy to compare ourselves to others who get their BFP at 9/10dpo I know I'm very guilty of it but everyone is different don't forget 😊 fingers crossed it's not the wicked witch xx

@thejollytrolleydolly I think I’m out too… No idea what the brown bleeding was last week! I’d put it down to an early period so god knows what’s going on now… onto the next cycle eh! How long have you been ttc for?

@thejollytrolleydolly oh no, sorry to hear that, so rubbish. I had exactly the same though and tested positive the same day as I thought I started AF but it wasn't.

@TK220440 any news? Brown bleeding usually means older blood so could have been implantation a while ago or maybe an attempted implantation, not sure if that's a thing but could be?

@Twocatstwodogs Just a tiny bit of red blood (but only when I wipe) this morning. It’s so strange! Brown spotting CD19-23 and then a little bit of red spotting on CD29! I usually have a cycle of 25-28 days but haven’t had a proper period. How are you getting on?

@TK220440 maybe test with a FRER? Could be good signs perhaps?

I'm ok, thanks for asking. Starting to feel a bit nauseous every now and again but manageable atm. I've had my appointment through for the nuchal scan already in October which feels scary.
Of course, also having the panic about what have I done, can I handle 3 kids under 4yrs if it works out! So all the emotions

@Twocatstwodogs I tested with an IC on cd26 and cd28. I think I ovulated on cd13 but I wasn’t tracking so I can’t be sure. I think I’ll try to hold out until next week to test on a FRER. But maybe this is just a strange period for me, although it’s never happened before.
Wow three children under 4! You’re bound to be going through all the emotions but I bet you’re so excited?? How long were you trying for?

@TK220440 try not to give up just yet, I ovulated much later than normal on cd18/19 this time round and was tracking so I caught it otherwise would have had no idea, so conception was around cd19/20 or so. I was cd30/31 before I tested positive.....

I know I think I'm a bit mad but also so excited if it works out ok.
I'm nearly 40 and we were TTC around 6-7 cycles but I did have some breaks as had a MC in April and needed to reset I think

@Twocatstwodogs We've been ttc for 12 months now and this month I feel my body really is playing tricks on me! I’m sleeping all the time also, but it could just be down to feeling a little under the weather. I’ll give it until after the bank holiday, test again and if a bfn, I’ll wait for my next period to reset!

You are a little mad 🤣 but having three so close together will be lovely and apparently it’s easier to have them so close together?