1DPO... Any tww buddies?

[Kellyaust]

Officially back to 1dpo...2nd cycle after MMC. Anyone else??

Yes well it's finally moved to midway so the witch will probably show today x

Morning ladies @Kellyaust you’re not out until af arrives, you never know. It it’s easier to just accept it’s a no this month I get it though.

is it @sella84 who's a bfp atm? I thought there was someone else but probably getting confused 😐

im 9 dpo and tested this morning with a 6 days early clearblue and a stark bfn this morning. I’ve tended to test pos at around 11dpo so I’m thinking I’ll remain positive mindset until then and then count myself out if still bfn.

I’m BFP , but this has happened before and I don’t really think I’m getting enough line progression , it’s going from 10dpo to 12dpo. The last time it was this slow we ended up miscarrying at 7 weeks .
@sella84 congratulations ! Tell that man of yours!!!

@Hopefulfirstround I can see a good line progression for two days x if u waited to test for another two days the line would be noticably darker hcg is meant to rise every 48hrs but I wouldn't worry the lines are getting darker coming from fresh eyes haha you've probably been staring at them (I would if they was mine ha) x

Morning @Twocatstwodogs how have u been finding the tww? I'm nearing the end and I'm such a impatient person I crnt cope anymore 🤣

@Kellyaust I feel like I've got pure hope for you I really do x

I've decided that if AF shows the weekend or next few days I'll be treating my self to a bottle of wine 🙈 I've never felt so obsessed before with ttc any tips on trying to like calm it Abit? I'm thinking maybe because I had my loss in February it's made me more obsessed and impatient x

Back to 1dpo, cycle 2, baby number 2. First cycle doing opk, only dtd on peak day, still getting used to what I should be doing. Let's see what happens. Sending positivity to you all ✨

@Jadeypie i’m the same… don’t you think it takes over life? I find it so hard to concentrate on anything at all! I got my hopes up so much after seeing a positive for a few minutes yesterday but I started bleeding last night and my cervix is low so it’s AF for me today I think.
@Kellyaust sometimes it’s so hard to DP to understand. I sat down with mine a month ago and explained how upset I get every month and he’s completely changed his attitude toward it and has become my rock, sometimes good communication can really help! X

Girls - do you see what I see? 9DPO! Haven’t told DH yet as I don’t want to get hopes up so might test again tomorrow and tell him if it’s darker and pregnant comes up on the digital!

@LittleMiss2023 I do see what you see!! Xxx

@LittleMiss2023 oh yes girl, thats there alright!!

@Twocatstwodogs it is me who's bfp. 15dpo now. I didn't get a positive with the 6 day early until Sunday, so 12dpo (1 day early !) so fingers crossed for you 😀

@Hopefulfirstround those progression lines look good!! When testing so early it's hard so see them, but the more dpo the stronger it gets and the quicker they'll come up, when I POAS the 2nd line now comes up straight away (instead of after a minute or so) and I'm 15dpo today. I'll attach a pic of my progression lines up to 13dpo.

@Kellyaust lots of hugs Hun, I'm keeping everything crossed there is a good reason why AF isn't here yet.

@Hopefulfirstround I can't tell him yet as he'll blab to his family (which ordinarily I don't mind!) and I don't want anyone knowing before his son's 18th birthday! You guys know, and my best friend 😀

@Twocatstwodogs yeah well ive got the typical AF tantrums today... Hate my hair hate my make up hate my clothes 😂😂😂

@Jadeypie ya know what... I don't even drink but I've bought a bottle this month ready.. Its been a tough one 😂😂

@sella84 I don't know how you're holding it in I'd have no chance you have nerves of steel haha

@Hopefulfirstround I wouldn't worry just yet I know it's hard coz I'd be the same but the lines are there 🤞

Thank you @Jadeypie 🫣 need a fresh set of eyes !! Have you tested yet ??? Hopefully the wine won’t be needed but if it is make it a good one x

@LittleMiss2023 theres a line !!! Congrats ❤️

thank yoy @sella84 let’s hope we have 2 sticky ones , I don’t know how you keep it in , I’m always bursting to say something 😂

That’ll you @Kellyaust i hoe things are settling down at home for you

@Hopefulfirstround were still not talking, I'm really not feeling speaking to him atm 🙁

@Hopefulfirstround nope not since the other day which was too early anyway! I've got one test left so I'm saving it till Saturday xx

So I think AF is here. It's very light still which is unlike me but last month it was lighter than normal too. My cervix was so high this morning so I was hopeful but it seems to have dropped down now so I'm giving up on this month. I've had a little (big) cry about it as each AF serves as a monthly reminder that I'm no longer pregnant...

Fingers crossed for next month and pregnancy twinning with my bestie ❤️

@thejollytrolleydolly awwww you have your cry, I'll soon be joining you, people make it seem so easy to get pregnant again after MC but I really don't believe that anymore, I think it takes a few months at least for us to regulate, makes sense with you saying you're lighter than usual... I'm now 1 day late which doesn't bother me coz I was worried about short cycles so as long as the witch comes in the next 2 days that gives me hope that my body is regulating again. Sending big hugs and luck for next month..... We may aswell stay on this thread to keep in touch 🤞

@Kellyaust thank you, I thought it would get easier over time after the mc but each month is another month without a baby in my belly and I just feel sad and empty 😔 I'm glad your cycles are looking normal again, mine was 10 days longer than normal last month but I'm back to 25 days this month so that's a good sign. Yeah usually I would spot for a bit then niagra falls but it's so light still! Last af was really light too. Definitely stay in tough on this thread! I feel like you and I really deserve some good news soon. Do you feel like af is coming or are you tempted to test? Xx

Me too. I'm 1dpo today too.. going to try to hold off testing till 12/13dpo if I can 😳 can't bring myself to be disappointed

@thejollytrolleydolly I think it's worse ttc after a loss something's very different the urge is so much more strong I dunno I can't really explain it!

I agree keep this thread @Kellyaustgoing it really does help talking to like minded people with experiences that's are the same xx **

I know exactly how you feel, we wanted a son because we have girls and now everyone around me is having boys literally not one girl in sight... I feel so empty too it hurts a lot each month you aren't pregnant. 😢 I'm really praying for you as much as myself I think coz we are so similar in cycles and what happened it's mad. Oh I have tested and all bfns I do feel like she's coming but she's taking her bloody time! Xx

@Jadeypie you're absolutely right! Before my last pregnancy I was so chilled just taking each month as it comes and I was pregnant after 2/3 months. But because I then lost the baby the urge to conceive again is so intense! I think stress does play a big part in me not conceiving and I think it's why it took me 3 years with my daughter because I was so focussed and stressed about falling pregnant. I think next month I'm going to have to try and chill out again... easier said than done though xx

@Kellyaust @thejollytrolleydolly @Jadeypie totally agree. So much worse having the unsuccessful cycles after mc, I’ve had many unsuccessful cycles before but these are so much worse. I go into my head so much more, start second guessing myself and then start to tell myself I should stick with 2 and 3 is too many and selfish anyway, it sends me in horrible spirals of downward thinking

@Kellyaust deffo please keep this going, I’m thinking, statistically eventually we’re likely to all get sticky ones……hopefully

Absolutely girls @Jadeypie @Twocatstwodogs @thejollytrolleydolly will definitely keep this thread open... Maybe we will all learn to chill a little but more and it'll happen.... That's what I'm hoping and praying for 🤞