Gutted 😞

[MrsBP15]

i got my first positive OPK this cycle today and my husband has been ill all week. Finally went to DTD just now and he stopped half way through saying it didn’t feel right what with being ill and not being up for it. I was so upset I started crying and he felt so bad, he tried to do it again but I just couldn’t go there. Felt like I was guilt tripping him into having sex with me. I just feel so deflated and emotional and it just feel like the last month of tracking etc has gone to waste. I guess I’m just getting this off my chest as im feeling super lonely right now and it sucks!!

Sorry you’re feeling like that, it’s such a stress when you get a positive OPK but the time isn’t right for DTD for whatever reason. Don’t beat yourself up for being upset, the TTC pressure can send us all over the edge! get some sleep and remember you probably have another day or two in this cycle to DTD if ye are up for it, and if you just want to chalk this cycle down as a miss there will be another shot next month xx

Thank you @Crazydogladie you’re right. I think this is just one of the first times I’ve felt stressed/upset so it just all felt like a bit much! It’s also my birthday today and I’m now 37 so just feeling the pressure there a bit too! I’m just going to enjoy my day, have a few drinks tonight and maybe that will lead to some birthday fun times later! Thank you for messaging back, I feel better already!

Happy bday

Stay positive - you got this

@MrsBP15 Happy birthday hun. Next time my advise don’t tell him about ovulation day ect. Just jump him and let him think you doing this coz you want it very much 😆 I find my husband can’t deal with pressure as well when I tell him we need to do it today. I just go for it and he feels happy and not under pressure.