Ive struggled for many years to get pregnant until I had a hycosy last June and fell immediately pregnant but it was a chemical. Tested postive 14dpo and bleeding that night.
Since then I'm just struggling again and so confused what this means. I don't understand how I got pregnant after the hycosy ( theory is it flushes tubes) and now Its just not happening. I've been on fertility medication and it's still not helping me get pregnant. I'm just feeling really hopeless at this point. Does anyone have any postive success stories? Most people keep posting how they got pregnant the month after ect and its literally just like a stab in my heart . I'm 37 now btw and I have pcos which I know are both contributors but I don't get how one egg can't have fertilzed and attempted to implant in all this time when clearly it worked so quickly after the dye test. Couldn't my tubes have filled up with blood or fluid ? They did suspect fluid in one tube based on ultrasound but fertility clinic has since said the dye test was normal and recent scan normal and we can continue to try and conceive naturally until we can afford ivf. Would it be worth having a second dye test? I worry that maybe I might have endo that could be causing an issue in my tubes. My periods are really light lately and i wonder why. I've read sometimes with endo blood can flow backwards into your tubes. I just don't know, I just don't understand what is wrong with me that I can't get pregnant. Trying since 20s no children. I feel like such a loser. Everyone around me is popping babies out left and centre and feel incompetent as a woman. It's really affecting my marriage as I just don't feel good enough or woman enough for him