TTC and feeling alone

[LisaMac92]

I'm so glad I found this chatroom, because I've felt so lonely about it. My two best friends got pregnant so easily it seems and I feel so left behind. I've been with my husband since we've been 18 and he is BORN to be a dad. Only recently he's been making reference to him "hopefully not firing blanks" and "bring the one in the wrong". He has NEVER once blamed me. But I'm really reaching the stage of maybe there really is something wrong. Just looking for some support x

How long have you been trying?

Hi OP! Have you tried going to your GP? If there were any issue with fertility on either side (although there may well not be – sometimes just takes a little while!), there’s often lots that can be done to help things along. It’s the worst feeling though, worrying! X

@LisaMac92 just offering as hand hold as I’m going through the same. Xx

Hi, completely understand how you feel and starting to feel the same way, feel like everyone around me is able to get pregnant at the drop of a hat :(. I’m going to call the gp and get started on that route to see what can be done/looked into to help/give answers. How long have you been trying?

You aren't alone! I would definitely suggest reaching out to your GP if you are worried as the waiting times can be really long, I started the process in October last year and I've finally got my gynae referral appointment tomorrow (I'm based in the UK) so get the ball rolling and in the meantime hopefully you get your BFP x