Hi there,
I’m hoping somebody sees this that can help. I have no children. I have been having fairly regular acupuncture for the past 15 months, and taking the herb teas. I have read ISWAE and we both have been taking the supplements for the past 3 months. Eat clean, no alcohol, healthy etc. I have had 3 miscarriages in the past 2 years, 1 chemical, 1 at 7+5 and one at 5weeks. All conceived naturally, which is very good for my age (42). I have begged the doc and EPU to prescribe me progesterone, and neither will until I have the scan at 6 weeks to say it has implanted in the right place. It was only after the 2nd miscarriage I got referred to the EPU.
I have got to know my body cycle so so well over the past 2 years as I’ve built up 100s of hours on forums, websites etc reading about pregnancy. Plus having had 3 x BFPs. Shamefully I knew so so little before. Last month my normally 25 day cycle was 28 and I felt so strongly that it was a chemical that didn’t stick, but I didn’t take the test to prove it. Previous tests haven’t come up until after 29 days, so that date was when I planned to test (got fed up of wasting them/the expense of it). It happened again, the way it always does, where I feel they symptoms disappear, my breasts almost instantly deflate, and AF comes.
This month, it was the same as last. I have been delighted to experience full and tingly breasts, mouth taste, very very tired, dreams, and just this ‘knowing’ that it all felt different. Yesterday, day 27, I went to the toilet last night at bedtime and there was a tiny stain of brown on the tissue. So I inserted one of my friends cyclogest vaginally. She had them leftover from her IVF prescription. This morning the pessery remnants left me and it was tinted pink/brown with a few dark bits in it?
And now nothing all day. I’ve taken a pregnancy test this afternoon and it is negative?
What do you think? I’ve just delayed the start of AF by inserting it and I shouldn’t have done so until I had a positive? But I had picked up from this forum that you can take cyclogest from after ovulation, so I knew I wasn’t doing something unheard of.
Or was last nights bleeding implantation….and the pink pessery residue I passed this morning (with a few bits in) was because it has irritated my lining?
I still have pregnancy symptoms, is this relevant?
I have been taking aspirin post ovulation last month and this. Then stopped when AF came.
I have just been so flawed by trying to get to the bottom of why my other miscarriages have happened and if I could have prevented them if I had had intervention?
Or are you putting them all down to chromosomal abnormalities (potentially due to my age) Although I have read on MN we shouldn’t just allow ourselves to be fobbed off with CA just because we are over 40. I am extremely fit and healthy in every other way.
IVF is imminent but I kept hoping we would come in under the wire, as I just kept feeling the problem is not getting pregnant but staying pregnant.
Any comments would be really appreciated.