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Still worrying about losing another baby and not even pregnant again yet!

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Freddie15VES · 02/05/2023 14:39

We decided to try for another baby in March and we were shocked/over the moon when we got pregnant straight away. The tests were super strong, got a 3+ on clear blue but starting to bleed at 6w 4d resulting in us losing the baby. It was just the worst weekend of my life. I was all over the place. But now I have stopped bleeding, getting very very faint tests I am now obviously thinking about the next step. Partner wants to try again but is adamant only when I’m ready (very lucky to have him) I do feel like I don’t want to hang around I’m 32 now which I know by no means is old at all but I would like to get pregnant sooner rather than later. I’m just so scared not about it happening again but about not being able to get pregnant and carry to term at all now. I know people have made it further along and lost babies which I can only imagine that pain but I’m so worried about secondary infertility I’m just overthinking everything. So many women have said they’ve miscarried then conceived and all was fine but I’m really worried this won’t happen for me

Has anyone had a similar experience? Or just some words of hope

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Hankthehonk · 02/05/2023 20:43

I'm so sorry for your loss.
I had a miscarriage in March at 8 weeks. We're trying again but like you I'm very anxious about another loss. I'm desperate to be pregnant again but I know once I am I will struggle to enjoy it. Have you found your way to the miscarriage/pregnancy loss forum yet? Very supportive thread there and plenty of stories of successful pregnancy after mc which I find helpful.
I do have a daughter, she was my first pregnancy and she's almost 3. The mc was my second pregnancy. So I do know I can have a healthy pregnancy- that is true for most women who miscarry, it's very likely to be the case for you too.

Sunnymummy3 · 02/05/2023 22:21

@Freddie15VES I am sorry for what you went through, it's really good your oh is supportive and kind.

I fell pregnant last year, but unfortunately lost it at 9 weeks in Dec, I am now at the end of my third full cycle, my p is due tomorrow, still no bfp so onto cycle 4 now.

I read all these articles that you are super fertile the 3 months after a loss so now I have a fear that the miscarriage did something to my body and I might not be able to get pregnant, as well as the fear of if I do get preg then loosing it again.

You are definitely not alone 💜

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