Anyone else struggling with no being able to concieve 🥲

[Ks1994]

Hey everyone

Just looking tovspeak to people I know will understand, been ttc for over 2 years now 1 miscarriage last September but absoutly nothing otherwise.

The past week both my best friends have told me they are pregnant and whilst I couldn't be happier for them secretly I'm really struggling with all the baby chat. Please tell me this is normal and I am not going insane 😅.

It's totally normal. Don't be hard on yourself.

Very normal. I am so sorry for your loss. I had a very traumatic miscarriage in February and I completely understand. Seeing AF every month is truly crushing.
Feeling bitter, angry and upset is normal but in some ways it hurts even more as no one wants to be that person.

It's normal. I was TTC for almost 4 years before becoming pregnant. It's rough.

Are you doing any investigations? Easiest to start with a semen analysis for DP.

Very many couples with conceiving but I doubt that is comforting to read tbh.

So sorry it hasn't happened for you easily.

Definitely not going insane.

I can't even stand to hear about celebrity pregnancy announcements 😅

Sending you lots of love xx

If you're insane then so are a lot of people! Took me 5 years to have my daughter and I could spot a pregnant woman from a mile away 👀. Lots and lots of luck to you.

Oh I remember vividly how I felt - It was so painful. I followed my aunt’s approach (she had unexplained infertility and I had years of not conceiving followed by multiple miscarriages before having my children) - she used to dash round a pregnancy related gift as soon as she knew so her friends knew she was pleased for them. It didn’t lessen the pain but told her friends that she didn’t hold them responsible for her pain in any way. I did the same and it helped keep my friendships intact. I did find seeing them pregnant hard. It was easier once the babies were born as I didn’t want their baby, I wanted to be pregnant myself.

What the hell? Horrible comment

3 years ttc. Was pregnant once, and miscarried early Jan 2021. None till now, not even any solid bfp. Same situation like you, people around me fell pregnant every now and then. Hard to absorb the direct/indirect announcements but always telling myself to be happy for others, that it will happen to me someday too. Fingers crossed for you, for me and for everyone who are in this journey... may the miracle find its way to us, soonest.