Hi! This is my first question on Mumsnet :) I hope someone can help me out...
I'm 35 years old, no kids, no previous pregnancies and I've been trying for almost 2 years to get pregnant without any success. My husband is my age. We both tested everything that was offered to us by the NHS: blood tests, hormone tests, day21 progesterone test, HyCoSy tube test, sperm test and AMH test. Everything came back with good results and therefore my infertility is seen as "unexplained".
I've been pushing for ages to get on the IVF waiting list but, as you probably know, it's taking ages to even get on it..
Last week I finally got a hospital appointment in the women's hospital to have a consultation about putting me on the waiting list. The doctor that I was supposed to see was sick, so they told me I would get a replacement doctor, but also a gynecologist.
When me and my husband met her, she seemed annoyed and rushed, she kept talking to my husband and not to me, and wouldn't let me finish my questions but immediately talk over me.
Eventually the doctor said that she could prescribe Clomid and that this would help me get pregnant faster although there was "a small risk for conceiving twins and a medium risk for getting ovarian cysts". I asked if she knew the percentages of getting twins and she said she didn't know but she thought they were low. She then said she would give me 50mg for 6 months and I should come again if I didn't get pregnant in 6 months... She was fully aware that I ovulate every month.
When we got home we googled what Clomid was and I was shocked to find out that according to studies the risk of twins is above 12%, especially for women who ovulate every month. I also read that Clomid very rarely gets prescribed for unexplained infertility, and that doctors usually make the women who take Clomid, come in every month for ultrasound scans, to check how many follicles have grown, in order to avoid falling pregnant with triplets or quadruplets...
I know some women might not appreciate this, but although I would love to get pregnant, I really want to limit the chances of twins, as I believe that we wouldn't have the financial stability or the family support, to work that out. We both work for the public sector, rent a flat and our families live 9 hours drive away...
I know there is always a risk of conceiving twins, but over 12% seems a very high chance to me, and after reading up on Clomid and the risks of taking it, if you ovulate normally, I kind of believe it would be irresponsible for me to take it.
We still haven't made our minds up, and my husband and me are still talking it through, but I got a really bad feeling from that doctor and feel like she just prescribed something so that I would shut up about the IVF waiting list.
I appreciate any advice or personal experiences with taking Clomid, although having regular ovulations! Thank you 🤗