TTC and feeling hopeless

[windsor22]

TTC for just under a year which I know isn't that long but feeling hopeless.
DH had sperm analysis which showed a mildly low sperm count and has been recommended some supplements and lifestyle changes. All other factors (motility and shape etc) were okay.
I'm pretty sure I have luteal phase defect as well and have been referred to gynaecology, I have an apt in the next few weeks. In the meantime I'm on supplements after seeking some private advice from a midwife (agnus castus, vit c, omega blend and a pre-conception blend).
I know we are fortunate to have a bit of a head start to know this information now and not months further down the line but still can't help but feel hopeless and like it's never going to happen. It can take 3 months for sperm count to increase and who knows what treatment I might need (I'm expecting I'll need progesterone support) and how long this might take to kick in.
Everywhere I look people seem to be having babies - school friends, colleagues, and of course it's Mother's Day tomorrow. It's all starting to get me down.
Don't know what I'm looking for in posting this. Maybe some success stories from those who were in a similar position.
Sending love this weekend to anyone else finding things tough xx

Just offering a hand hold as I am currently going through the same thing. It makes you shut off a bit. But in really life I haven’t told anyone that we’re struggling to conceive. It’s all consuming and I hope that you (and me!) eventually get our happy ending.

I know one thing though. If it does happen, I’m keeping it private for as long as possible because I know how much it hurts to have your face rubbed in at on social media/baby showers/gender reveals/christenings etc. xxx

@windsor22

Hey @windsor22, currently going through the same thing so can completely sympathise. We’ve been trying for 3 years so far, I’m 33 and DH is 36. We had tests after 1 year and I went private for a hycosy which diagnosed PCOS (which GP blood tests didn’t show).

I’ve done my 3rd cycle of letrozole this month and next step is NHS IVF once I’ve lost the last few pounds to be eligible.

Had a chemical in Jan so I feel like this Mother’s Day will be the hardest - sending hugs your way for tomorrow 🌸

we’ve told friends and family that we are struggling, in the hopes that people will be a bit more sensitive to our situation.

you’ve got a good head start on your tests so that’s positive- you’re strong, you can do this! 💪🏼

sorry I’m not able to give a success story but hopefully, it will be my month soon🤞🏼🤞🏼

also agree completely with @Dreamer88, this whole experience has taught me that I want to keep everything as private as possible when it does finally happen xx

Thanks so much for the reply ❤️ it's really nice when strangers support each other! I hope it happens for us soon xxx

I'm sorry to hear about your struggles and keeping everything crossed for you ❤️❤️

Thank you and you too lovely. Sending baby dust and hope you get your BFP soon xxx

Hey, just jumping on here to see if you had your appointment yet OP? My situation is been ttc 16 months, never had a BFP, transvaginal scan showed pretty normal, slightly enlarged ovaries but nothing to be concerned about. Blood test showed I wasn't ovulating but because my cycles are very random I think the bloods were done too early! I've just got my referral appointment through for the 7th July but not sure what to expect! X